Why don't guys message me first?

[Akam93]

[Anonymous]

Hesitant men may feel that you are too strong for their personality. In reality, they are scared or intimidated by your strong personality. As a result, they may avoid texting you first. His insecurities could also play in the back of his mind and hinder him from starting a conversation on the text.

[boggboss]

Most guys do

[Gent207-2]

Too scared lol

I don't really know lol

[genericname85]

you can thank all the other girls for that. men don't message first, cause it's not worth their time.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

Provide more context please

[Akam93]

As in it's me who messages me them first.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

that really doesn't clarify anything.

I'm asking as in the context of the messages. Is this male friends, romances, online dating, a cold approach, is this earlier in the messaging, who gave whose number... those sorts of things.

If you send yourself messages then you have bigger issues.

[Akam93]

Romances, and online dating mostly.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

Random response is simply men know that showing too much interest and availability makes them unattractive. It relates to value. But honestly, maybe you're being long and drawn out like these messages right now. Doesn't exactly encourage interactivity.