What do guys thinking I admit is as being delusional thinking every guy was flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

I’m just saying to you right now that I realized what real friendship is. And I didn’t really get it until now. I’m so stupid but now I’m saner.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Well... I do flirt with every pretty girl I meet, I can't help it. It's too much fun, and most of them seem to enjoy it
So you wouldn't be totally delusional in some cases

[Asker]

Are you saying like you’re not or something. What constitutes flirting to you. Because I’m starting to think I need to loosen up and not take things as flirting if they aren’t definitively such. Saying I’m hot or pretty outta nowhere is flirting. Being nice and being happy to see me isn’t flirting. Or making eye contact for a long time.

[Asker]

Saying ‘you’re hot’*

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm not delusional lol. Not all of them enjoy it. I can take a hint

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm not saying I'm hot either. I don't know what I'm saying. I'll just see myself out

[Asker]

What do you call flirting? Is it saying ‘you’re hot’ or what? I guess the question is too deep for you. Lmdaooo

[WanderingLoveWizard]

No need to be rude.
I flirt in a joking way. I don't say "you're hot". That's much too vulgar.

Say she drops something. I'll say something like,
"Why are all the cute ones so clumsy?" And smile at her

[Asker]

I found your post dismissive and rude. But anyway that’s awkward. Actually a guy fitted once by saying he was jealous of who I was texting (I was looking at my phone). I guess that’s flirting I mean technically you can say it isn’t. But when I thought guys were flirting I was taking stuff like oh he stared in my eyes, or said some joke etc. Chile please. I just spent too much energy reading into stuff and ended up thinking every guy wants me if he so much as talks to me or glances at me I think he likes me. So i decided friendly people are friendly. And so will I be. And stop being a closed off black widow spider who thinks everything a guy does is a sign he wants me.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Sorry if I came across that way. I wasn't trying to be. I just meant a lot them probably are. Especially if you're cute.

Whether they're flirting or not, I think you're smart to be that way. It will make you a much more enjoyable person to be around, and probably make you happier in the process.

I think a lot of girls could benefit from following your lead on this one

[Asker]

Thanks! Sorry I attacked you.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, it's all good.
No problem!