Why do I feel like if I have to consciously put effort into taking steps to show a guy I like him that it’s not meant to be?

[Anonymous]

I’m extremely shy and even had selective mutism growing up. I still feel mute in situations regularly today. But something feels so off about it when I try to purposefully show a guy I like him back. It should be easy and natural.

[Guy13]

If you feel like you have done all you can then back off and see if he thinks you are a priority. He may pursue you unless he gets negative energy vibe from you. Frustrated as negative energy translates to “she don’t like me.”

[Asker]

It’s funny cause backing off (or just constantly naturally being backed off) is my natural state. Normal state for me lol.

[Avicenna]

Don't send mixed messages. Just communicate that you are not interested.

[spartan55]

In other words, he is supposed to read your mind and just know that you like him?

[In_Trance]

Because you do have to put in effort