Is there any point in telling a guy I have feelings for him but don’t want a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’m falling for my best friend and there’s so much tension between us that I just want to come clean and say I like him but there’s also so many reason why I shouldn’t go forward with my feelings. Should I just keep the feelings bottled up or would you want to know?

[Luna1998]

I would go stright forward, i like things to be clear or else it would be bother me too much that it effect me daily life

[Asker]

Yeah it’s bothering me more but I also don’t want it to ruin the friendship

[Luna1998]

Yeah understand, been there too lol. Try tho, if it doesn't turn out as you want then you won't have anything else to lose, ask him again, "are we good as friend then?" Or "alright, can we be friends?"

[Asker]

Ok thanks for the advice!!

[Luna1998]

You're welcome! Hope its work well for you!

[Asker]

Thank you so much!!

[442244]

You guys should talk about it maybe you guys just take it a little slower if you like him and he makes you happy give it a chance you don’t want to miss out on something good you don’t want to regret missing out on something good don’t overthink it us humans tend to needlessly complicate things if you have someone that makes you happy don’t ever give give it up

[Snowman666]

Why not make it a relationship? love conqures all. Nothing is ever perfect.

[Asker]

I don't know I just don’t think I’d be enough for him I got a lot of issues to deal with first before I make someone else handle handle me 😂

[Anonymous]

If bottling your feelings us causing tention, it might be helpful to be honest about the feelings and discuss them.

[Anonymous]

Not really.