How can a guy “care” about you but not want a relationship? Is that an excuse?

[Anonymous]

If he doesn’t like me why care.. what’s so wrong with me.. why am I not enough for him

he doesn’t want to sleep with me bc I’m “vulnerable “ and doesn’t want to “hurt me” emotionally/mentally.” but he admitted that if we slept together he would have probably caught feelings.

Like it’s mixed signals. He would Fuck me but I’m not good enough for more..

[slatyb]

He "cares about you" ? In what way.

Ignore any reasons anyone ever gives for not wanting a relationship with you. There's only "yes" and "no".

[Asker]

Idc anymore. I hope something happens to him

[Asker]

He’s a fire fighter so I hope he fry’s lol

[spartan55]

@asker The statements you made here are why you need help!

[Asker]

@spartan55 I’m on my period and I suffer from pmdd. So I’ve been off the wall. My bad

[Asker]

@spartan55 I don’t feel like it’s that bad. I was just hurt

I told him I don’t be meaning it. I prayed for his safety and asked God to forgive me

[Daisy_97]

You hope for a relationship with him and he is clearly not interested into that! Sure that he wish you best if he sees you like a friend!
Move on and don’t forget that a better one is waiting for you there outside🌸

[Asker]

But why just a friend? I don’t understand

[Daisy_97]

I dont know you!
But there can be planty reasons and its not that you are not good enough!
It can be for example a different preference or he like someone else!

[Asker]

Yeah prob wants someone better or his ex

[Asker]

He said I was lonely angry and insecure (it’s true) and despite my outburst he still likes talking to me. .. but he doesn’t text first

He said it’s not me but he’s not looking for a relationship with anyone at the moment. Prop not true

[Asker]

He’s a firefighter so I told him that I hope something would happen to him.

[Anonymous]

Only him could answer your question.. In an honest view, you have to believe that he really just wanted to be friends and he made that clear for you. It is not in his intentions to have a relationship with you..

[es20490446e]

It doesn't matter, it's his problem.

Why he is whisky washy isn't your problem. Your problem if to see if he has the right attitude, or he doesn't.

[Asker]

He told me that he sees me as a friend

He’s been honest and consistent but he doesn’t want me and I can’t seem to accept it

[Asker]

He just said he wants the best for me

[es20490446e]

Then there's nothing else to do there.

[Asker]

I don’t know what “I want the best for you” mean

[es20490446e]

You can ask.

[KrakenAttackin]

Maybe he cares about you as a "friend", likes being balls deep in you, but doesn't see you as relationship material.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what I was thinking. He did want friends with benefits but I stated that he didn’t want to sleep with me bc we don’t want the same things and he doesn’t want me to catch feelings

But you’re right.

[abc3643]

No, he's your father or brother or uncle.