He says now he feels peace?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend had 20 of marriage with a woman who was kinsa crazy

Today he said finally he feels peace

4 years since he left her after she sent him to prison

I date him for 2 years

It means he feels peace with me now?

Why he was 20 years in marriage if he wasn't in peace? she cheated, she assauleted him she made false accusations

He was with her all this time

He says it was for his daughter... not sure... what you think guys?

Why?

[spartan55]

If you aren't secure after two years then what are you doing with him? Also, you are hearing his side of the situation. Does he take any blame for anything? So, he was wrongfully convicted and sent to prison? It's possible but not likely.

[Asker]

He never hit her
She hurt herself
And my question its not
about that

[spartan55]

I answered your question with my first sentence.
How do you know he never hit her? Because he said so? Don't be a fool. What did he go to prison for? Have you done any vetting on this guy at all? Doesn't sound like it.

[Asker]

Well i dont see him agressive with me
What vetting means?

[Asker]

For beating his wife
Which was a lie

[spartan55]

Vetting is checking out the background and criminal history of the guy. Like I said, how do you it's his ex that lied? You think he is going to tell you he beat her ass? Damn you will believe anything.
People don't typically go to prison for domestic violence. Jail, yes. Not prison unless there was a weapon involved.

[spartan55]

He hasn't been aggressive towards you, YET. It's your life, but you seem to be ignoring the possibility that the guy is dangerous.

[Asker]

Well... wait a minute
Once he randomly grabbed me by my neck and hold it like that
Just hodling it, saying nothing
That was weird

[spartan55]

Thought he was never aggressive towards you?

[Asker]

Its the confusion i have

[spartan55]

There shouldn't be any confusion if he has put his hands on you or not.

[Guy13]

It means he feels free. Now, we will find out if you are rebound girl and he feels confident enough to fully assert his independence and freedom.

[Asker]

Rebound what means?

[fonduegirl]

He's messed up

[Asker]

What do you mean