Guy coworker never even wanted to say hi to me almost everyday for 2 years. Then a few months ago he always says hi. Why?

[Anonymous]

And he acts happy to see me.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for certain why your coworker's behavior has changed, as there could be many different reasons for this shift. However, it's possible that he may have had a change of heart or a change in his personal circumstances that has led him to be more friendly and open with you.

Alternatively, he may simply have realized that he was being rude or unfriendly before and has made a conscious effort to be more polite and courteous in the workplace.

If you are curious about his behavior or want to better understand his perspective, it may be helpful to approach him in a non-confrontational way and ask if everything is okay. By opening up a dialogue and expressing your curiosity in a respectful and supportive way, you may be able to gain a better understanding of his feelings and work towards a more positive and productive relationship in the workplace.

If you want to approach your coworker and ask about his change in behavior, it may be helpful to do so in a non-confrontational way. Here is an example of what you could say:

"Hey, I've noticed that you've been more friendly and open with me lately, and I just wanted to check in and see if everything is okay. I really appreciate your positive attitude and it's made a difference in how I feel at work. Is there anything going on that you want to talk about?"

By expressing your curiosity in a calm and respectful way, you may be able to open up a dialogue and gain a better understanding of your coworker's perspective. Remember to approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to listen, and to give your coworker the space and time he needs to express his own feelings and concerns.

[Effably]

Guess you're friends now. Go get matching shirts!

No but what's the problem here? He might have been shy. Might have thought you had nothing in common. May have felt you were difficult to approach. Had a work-is-work-and-not-socialising attitude that changed? Or a dozen other realistic reasons.

End of the day, if you want to be you two are now Hello-Buddies. Try a highfive (fist/elbow bump for covid safety!).

[Iron_Man]

He’s probably failed in other relationship and now he’s settling but I have no idea it’s just a guessing game because I don’t know nothing about him

[Asker]

He thinks I’m going to be second choice?

[Iron_Man]

Like I said, I don’t know the guy personally, I’m just guessing

[Asker]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

Sure

[Sleeper07]

Sexual harassment laws and metoo make it difficult for men to interact with women in the workplace. Perhaps he's had a change of mind on the matter.

[noohair]

My father taught me a valuable lesson. Women at work are off limits. He was right as I have seen men destroy their career with workplace romance.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Prob friendly

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Maybe love is in the air.

[Nikki1989]

He finally came out of his shell.