How do men forget you so easily?

[Akam93]

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I haven't forgotten anyone I've been with. Even casually.

(Except this one girl. I forgot her name and feel kinda bad about it 🤦‍♂️)

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I wanna say Leah, but that's not right...

[Akam93]

Is this an ex girlfriend or something?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

No, we never dated. I just saw her a couple times until she got a little whacky on me

[Akam93]

Probably best then to not remember her name. Lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You're right. Lol!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Marina!! Fuck, I wasn't even close

[strlb]

Depends what you did

[lightbulb27]

I wouldn't say we forget, we can put aside and compartmentalize.

Guys have a "nothing box" where we can go, and we don't think or feel. we go into "logic" and distracted modes where we aren't feeling. We're just wired different... and not all are the same. As well, we can be avoidant.

[caring__1]

Females are more likely to hold onto the fantasy of what could have been, while males tend to focus more on reality than fantasy. The fantasy is hard to let go, while confronting ourselves with reality makes it harder to hold onto something that doesn't exist.

[Gent207-2]

They are all written down in my Chronology (sort of like an autobiography)

[andreasderjuengere]

The method behind is called ''common sense'' - or ''rational thinking''.

I am aware that this perhaps sounds a little... abstract :)

[SlothySlob]

We don't. We just decide not to interact with exes.

[Jersey2]

Because women say so much stuff. Relax, live a little… don’t sweat the small stuff… and, because we don’t f’ing listen according to my wife.

[Jersey2]

Or, re-read it. For get you being they key. Very simply, when it was over I moved completely on and she was dead to me. I do still have some fond memories of ex’s but they are ex’s for a reason.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I haven't forgotten any of them, even the one night stands.

[Chthou95]

They dont forget. You were just fooling around with a guy that has options and was able to move on quickly. Most guys don't just move on

[Pterodon]

Because you’re forgettable?