Is it suspicious that my boyfriend showered in the morning for work?

[Cass510]

boyfriend of four years, I’ve spent the weekend at his house and he had work this morning. He showered yesterday in the afternoon and this morning he showered before work (he works in construction) I know he didn’t do laundry so I was a little suspicious why he showered in the morning because I know he does when he comes home. He gave me a kiss goodbye and told me he loved me and left the key. Last time I slept over when he had work he showered in the morning too but we had sex that night. So I figured that’s why, we had sex in the morning yesterday. Am I being paranoid? No he didn't smell like cologne or look any fancier than his work duds but I don't know

[nitsuj86]

Lol, some people just like to shower in the morning.

I shower almost every morning. It's more unusual for me to not shower.

1. The hot water feels nice, and it wakes me up.

2. I like being clean, and I don't want to smell in the morning. I don't even have any hair, but I still like to feel clean. When I did have hair, I hated the feeling of my hair being greasy and pressed down from the night before.

I'd say the issue here is you have been dating for 4 years and still live separately, you start to wonder why and are making shit up in your head. Some people like to shower in the morning.

Maybe you should talk about moving in soon, and then you won't have to worry. If it's been 4 years, and he can't even consider living with you, then I would start looking for someone who will.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I mean two showers a day is pretty normal. If it's different behavior that you haveny seen then you can consider if other new changes are visible. On its own, it means nothing

[EmmaMary]

Both my husband and I shower twice a day (morning and evening)... It's just simple hygiene,

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Anonymous]

If you have to question your relationship you shouldn’t be in one.

[spartan55]

This

[DaySpring]

Yup It's self sabotage. It's springing from her conditioning.

[spartan55]

Really? This is the type of shit that drives guys away. You are creating an issue where there is none.

[AviatorTom]

Would you rather he not shower and be smelly?

[Anonymous]

Everything's suspicious when you're insecure and paranoid.

[gorydetails]

lol, let the man have a fuckin shower in peace.

[alexking2]

You are being paranoid. Sometimes guys like to shower, that's all lol

[JamesRandiDebates]

Some people like to start their day with a shower. And if he's in construction, he probably needs a shower at the end of the work day as well.

[Alex8736]

did you smell his unwashed clothes to see if they had any scents like Victoria secret or possibly traces of perfume?