My boyfriend stopped wearing deodorant all of a sudden and he is starting to smell even after he showers?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is from a different country which isn’t an issue.

The issue is he stopped wearing deodorant and the only reason I know he stopped is because in the beginning when he came he didn’t stink under his armpits. I bought him everything he needed for his shower routine including deodorant, shampoo & conditioner, body wash, wash cloths to wash himself with, toothbrush & toothpaste, etc. I don’t know what the issue is.

I haven’t brought it up to him that he stinks but nonchalantly I told him if he wants something different to use or ran out of the stuff I bought him to let me know because I don’t want him to run out of stuff he needs. He didn’t bat an eye about it but he still isn’t wearing deodorant.

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Maybe I’m a piece of shit for this but I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t wear deodorant and stinks.

[Sevenpointfive]

alright. finally. this is the right time to address this. don't touch him. it's not taking sex away. you are disgusted by his hygiene

[PeaceTachio]

Honeymoon stage is over since he already got you and he dont need to pretend to be someone he is not. Usually true behavior, personalities and routine comes out after being in a relationship.

[itsannalee]

Ask him directly and tell him that his body odors smell so bad.
Some people don’t know that they have body odor because they used to it.

[bowenw]

I suggest you ask him specifically if he has run out of deodorant and tell him you need him to always use it.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[joehypo1]

You just gotta be straight with him a lot of the time they don't notice that they stink and need someone to tell them they stink , and we need more people doing this because a lot of dudes be stinking

[jahaims]

No question