Or is that something that many people would ask in the same situation, for clarification purposes? I was just confused and really wanted to clear up the awkward ambiguity and silence in the conversation.
Why would that be rude. It will obviously tip your hand though.
No, I'd be flattered:)
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It's not necessarily insulting to ask if the woman is his girlfriend, especially if there is ambiguity in the situation. It's a common question that many people would ask for clarification purposes, and it shows that you're interested in understanding the nature of their relationship.
However, it's important to be respectful and mindful of how you ask the question. You could phrase it in a polite and neutral way, such as "Just to clarify, are you two dating?" or "Are you two in a relationship?" This can help to avoid any potential awkwardness or offense.
Overall, it's always better to ask for clarification rather than making assumptions or jumping to conclusions. As long as you ask the question respectfully and with good intentions, it shouldn't be insulting.
No insult, but it can be slightly awkward. If he introduces her with "This is Jennifer" then she is "just a friend" or maybe it is complicated between them or still very fresh romance. Maybe ask other things that can count as general interest in the person, and if she is the girlfriend you'll notice soon.
No you can ask anyone that , however, it is more a situation of asking it at the appropriate place and time. Also you have to be tactful in your approach. Lastly, it really depends on the nature of your relationship. It would be totally inappropriate to ask your male supervisor that.
Seems like a logical question. I don't see why it would be awkward. If I was the guy, I'd think it was humorous. But I certainly wouldn't be offended.
I'm not sure it's insulting but it's insensitive. If she is his girlfriend and he wanted you to know that, he would have introduced her that way, "This is my girlfriend..."
Don't care if it's insulting or not. Ask away. No question is insulting because you want to know an answer.
I'd say, oh, are you two dating? it's not a problem.
some might be caught off guard and feel awkward.
Not insulting, but could b prying. U don't know for all could be ex or daughter or some shit. Could be awkward t put that context if they aren't yknow
How about a more subtle “Are you and _____ friends or colleagues?
It would hurt my feelings for sure.
This is a classic female nosey AF question. Just leave people alone.
It is okay to ask that. My nurse asked if my mom was my wife. I corrected her; but wasn't offended.
I wouldn’t feel insulted but I would feel somewhat awkward if it weren’t
Not that I know of.
Logical question insted of assuming
not at all
It's alright
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