The ride of chemistry is going good yet like a stick shit car a man can go from enjoying it to phases of stoic shut down. Why is that?

[Juneberry91]

Removing games but simply talking about a man who enjoys/ likes a woman but has stalling moments where he can come off stoic, unreadable where you you do have moments of doubt that maybe not. But an another note he flips back in to that transparent smiling playful man that looks at you tenderly only to have that stick shift switch gears again.

Is this mapping it out in thier minds, is this low confidence, struggle of expression, uncertainty , playing it cool?

[NamerOfStars]

That's an, um... interesting typo in the question; you might want to edit that, if you can.

But to answer it, it's probably a combination of all of those things; men are often the ones who act as the bottleneck in relationship progress, as women usually are in sexual progress (not always, in either case, but usually), and it's sometimes hard to judge, since few people are all that behaviorally honest; they'll usually put on a better face than their true one to get their partners to give them what they want.

[Juneberry91]

Thanks for pointing out I did writing it in passing. Unfortunately I taped on the icon & no editing option.

Nor do I want to delete it because your answer her is prime rib! Love have you point out the behavioral honestly. What do you mean by bottleneck?

[NamerOfStars]

Typically (and again, I stress this isn't always the case), women are more eager to push into ever-higher levels of commitment and relationship intensity than their male partners are; this makes the men more hesitant, since someone wanting something so much tends to put people on edge, a bit- you say the same with women wondering why men are (usually) in such a hurry to have sex.