What does it mean when he I don't know if we will last long in a relationship, should we try for a month?

[mochipitch]

[Anonymous]

If someone says "I don't know if we will last long in a relationship, should we try for a month?" it could mean a few different things. Here are a few possibilities:

1. They are unsure about their feelings: The person may not be sure if they have strong enough feelings for you to sustain a long-term relationship. They may want to try dating for a month to see if their feelings develop further.

2. They are cautious: The person may be cautious about jumping into a serious relationship and want to take things slow. They may want to try dating for a month to see how things go before committing to anything more.

3. They are testing the waters: The person may not be sure if they are ready for a serious relationship and want to try dating for a month to see if they are comfortable with the idea.

Ultimately, the best way to understand what the person means is to have an open and honest conversation with them. If you're interested in pursuing a relationship with them, it's important to communicate your own feelings and expectations as well. Be sure to consider your own needs and boundaries, and don't feel pressured to agree to anything that doesn't feel right for you.

[In_Trance]

Why would you bother if you haven't started and there's already doubts?

[Anonymous]

I’m guessing you really like and want this guy to even consider something so absurd. When he’s telling you he doesn’t think a relationship will work, to me that’s him preparing you for more hurt than he’s probably already caused. Don’t do that to yourself it’s not worth it.

[LazerBean]

Why not just get to know each other a bit more to see if the relationship is worth even trying out?

[mochipitch]

Because his actions ended up not being consistent and I was in my head thinking he is wasting my time which got me annoyed and felt as if he was taking me for granted.

[LazerBean]

So then why bother at all?