Is it just out of pity?

[Anonymous]

so I've got this guy who always gives me stuffs, treats me out, always wanna hang out with me, asks for a favor everytime even though im not his only friend.

what bothers me is that i like him. he's too kind and generous. it's kind of dangerous to a girl like me. here's the problem, I don't know if he likes me back or he's just doing these kind of things out of pity. cuz like, every time I'm with him, I'm always (sometimes ig) broke and im that one friend if u ask me to go with u somewhere, I'll gladly go without hesitation. he always gives (gifts) me stuff even if I don't ask for it, tbh it's really confusing me. it's bothering me so much that I can't get it out of my head. pls tell me it's just out of pity. im tired of these kinds of things.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Maybe he's just a nice guy who wants to do things for you because he likes you

[Asker]

he said that he does it to his other guy friends tho... although i think the gifts he gives me r quite expensive

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Then he's just a nice guy in general who likes to do nice things for people.
Why do women always take offense to this kind of stuff?
You're overthinking it

[Asker]

I didn't take offense. i was just asking to make sure i don't get the wrong idea and make myself hope for things to happen. and if he's just being nice, then I'll need him to cut me some slack. It'll be a bad thing if i start depending on him when im in money crisis...

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I guess tell him that

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I don't think it's out of pity though. I think it just makes him feel good

[Asker]

ohhhh i see i see aight i have to tell him to cut me some slack.. he gave me a bunch of things already

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, I can respect that