Is this a good excuse?

[Anonymous]

I have a male coworker he always having loud phone calls and today I heard him say his wife rarely has sex with him if at all. And he said the excuse is most of the time, how im supposed to work afterwards? Is this a good excuse? I think BS. And my female coworker tells me he always flirt and make jokes about her vagina or sex to her he even offered a massage one time she refused. And other than that, he start treating the female coworker very bad lately it hurt her like he laugh and joke with all of us but he became so cold towards her and its hurting her a bit. Today i was with her and 2 coworker he walked past us said Good morning my female coworker didn't say it back then very later she was in the kitchen he was looking for her and saw her and ran downstairs again like whats that behaviour?

[smne35]

He' is someone who lacks respect for women, he claims he's married and his sex life with his wife is a private matter and to be broadcasting it for all to hear is disrespectful to his wife he needs to grow up and learn what it is to be a man, I would be careful around a person like this if I were you he's dangerous

[Asker]

He is not talking the first time about sex like this and for some reason he always do this when the female coworker is around heck last week Friday when she came downstairs he was having a phone call and saying he would want sex now badly and and like about now and yesterday when she came downstairs he made the topic about sex again talking about his wife not wanting sex and saying she can't work and that he needs sex regulary but like what does my female coworker have to do with it? Why he always brings it up when she is around? And like you said his private sex life should be private but i also think he talks about the female coworker a lot because one tine a man came and she was sitting on the floor when he was on the computer then the man saw them and said to him: finally she on her knees for you

[tfan1]

Might want to tell your boss or hr. No one should be uncomfortable at work.

[Asker]

I really would love to know why he treat our female coworker like trash and to all of us he act normal and laugh and joke as usual. So disgusting 🤮

[MassiveDik]

She's probably cheating on him while he busting his ass making a paycheck the dumb whore.

[Anonymous]

His personal life shouldn’t be discussed at work. He sounds toxic.

[Asker]

It's not the first time he talk about it at work infront of all of us... and really dont understand what our female coworker did to him he treat her he like trash its so sad

[Opinion Owner]

You should talk to your boss about this and let him know what’s going on.

[Asker]

With trash i dont mean he insult her or anything like that i mean he used to be very good with her and nice now he is just cold and like she is nothing but with all other of us he is good and nice as usual

[spartan55]

Why do you care nosey?

[Asker]

I care about my female coworker. He treat her how he wants like i seen one time 3 days he was very good with her then he got cold towards her now since he is very cold and bad to her and only her with the others he's laughing and having fun like i wonder what she did to him 🤮one time i saw she pass him he was checking out her body

[spartan55]

Okay? She is an adult correct? Why is she entertaining a married man?

[Asker]

She is not entertaining him, he is the one who chase her all the time. And the one who offered to massage her but she refused and the one who always talks loud about sex with the person he having phone call when she is around saying things like I would want to fuck now or i want sex now badly yesterday when she came downstairs he started talking about his wife not wanting sex with him saying she can't work and that he needs sex regulary but like what does my coworker have to do with it?

[spartan55]

She doesn't flirt with him?