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Me and this guy have been talking and hanging out. I brought up what my intentions were and told him I liked him. We been hanging out quite frequently. He’s texts me every morning and every night. Making sure I made it home safe etc.
He said he didn’t know if he wanted a relationship at the moment. He said he wasn’t sure if he wanted to try and enroll in college this year. He said he’s still trying to figure out what he’s gonna do. He said he didn’t want a failed relationship. He didn’t want to be together then have to break up since there was a chance he might move. After, he said he likes me and he said meant that. He said I like hanging out with you and texting you. He said he’s getting use to me being around.
My question is….
Is this an excuse or is he actually being truthful? I mean I don’t even know myself, of how it would work long distance. But is he just saying he doesn’t want a relationship because deep down he doesn’t want me like that? Or is it really because he might move away and we won’t see each other as much? So far, he’s been really nice and he’s treating me good. Or maybe we should be friends? Please help me figure out what to do !!! Thank you!
He said he didn’t know if he wanted a relationship at the moment. He said he wasn’t sure if he wanted to try and enroll in college this year. He said he’s still trying to figure out what he’s gonna do. He said he didn’t want a failed relationship. He didn’t want to be together then have to break up since there was a chance he might move. After, he said he likes me and he said meant that. He said I like hanging out with you and texting you. He said he’s getting use to me being around.
My question is….
Is this an excuse or is he actually being truthful? I mean I don’t even know myself, of how it would work long distance. But is he just saying he doesn’t want a relationship because deep down he doesn’t want me like that? Or is it really because he might move away and we won’t see each other as much? So far, he’s been really nice and he’s treating me good. Or maybe we should be friends? Please help me figure out what to do !!! Thank you!
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Based on what you've shared, it's possible that this guy is being truthful about not being ready for a relationship at the moment. It sounds like he has some uncertainties about his future plans, such as whether he wants to enroll in college and where he might end up living. These uncertainties could be making him hesitant to commit to a relationship, especially if he's worried about the possibility of a long-distance relationship not working out.
It's important to take his words at face value and to respect his boundaries and feelings. If he's not ready for a relationship, it's important to give him the space and time he needs to figure out his own priorities and goals. You could consider continuing to hang out and see where things go, but it's important to keep communication open and honest about your own feelings and expectations for the relationship.
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what is best for your own well-being and to make choices that align with your values and priorities. If you feel that being friends is the best option for you at the moment, it's okay to communicate that and to focus on building a strong friendship. The most important thing is to be true to yourself and to prioritize your own emotional well-being.
There's only yes and no. And it's long distance? Date someone local.