Do you think guys who trick girls into bed deserve to get beat up?

[Anonymous]

my brother beat up a guy who tried to trick me to get into bed with him. I was shaken to the core. He schemed for over a month on his scheme. my brother found me crying. so he ended up repeatedly punching him until he lost his shoe and got a bloodied nose.

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he tried pretending that he was romantically interested in me. he planned on what to say at every stage. and this took a total of a month and a half.

[Aerissa_Jade]

No one deserves to be the victim of a crime, however no one should ever be manipulated into having sex with someone under false pretenses either.

Promises and other methods to get sex then leave her when done, is common.

Please be careful in the future to avoid this kind of problem and don't trust men, until they spend at least six months earning it.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I mean... technically, it's a form of rape called "coercion" so...

[Jackblue]

no coercion is force, it might be rape by deception, but that is a tricky thing to prove

[Asker]

@Jackblue

Sexual deception is just as violating to the victim as physical force. At the end of the day, the victim feels violated physically and psychologically. Its traumatizing

[Jackblue]

I guess so.

[Lliam]

Lying and using coercion just to get in a woman's pants is sick. A guy like that is worse than a mugger or thief. It's sociopathic behavior. It can cause psychic damage to the victim, similar to rape.
So I think it's fine for predators like that to get a good ass whooping.

[Asker]

i kept crying and didn't eat for 3 days after I found out he used me.

[Asker]

i really appreciate how you understand how violated, disturbed and shaken I felt. many people think that its not rape unless he is using physical coercion. but a lot of sick rapists have their own creative ways to coerce or manipulate a woman into sex without using physical force (since they know it is illegal)

[HighValue]

Sure. Sometimes violence is justified. Just like I believe that women that divorce and steal what a man worked for and steals his kids deserves to be killed too.

[Jackblue]

In some cases that could be considered rape by deception, though that area of the law is still kind of being worked out. Ultimately it is very hard to tell the difference between a guy who just uses women for sex and one who breaks up with a woman after sexual activity for a legitimate reason.

[richardcory]

What does "trick" you into getting into bed mean? I (and I think other readers) don't know what that means, and without that we can't answer.

[Berethor]

It can count as rape by deception so the guy deserve to get beaten up, your brother did right.

[DaveJord]

Beat up by who? I wish it was socially acceptable to beat up woman sometimes for the shit they do to men.

[Anonymous]

How would a guy "trick" a 30+ year old woman into going to bed with him?

Your brother is an unstable criminal. He should be arrested and prosecuted for assault and battery.

[Asker]

im not 30+

[Opinion Owner]

How would a guy trick a woman of any age into going to bed?

[Opinion Owner]

Unless she's mentally incompetent... In which case, he deserves what he gets.

[spartan55]

@asker
So, you lied about your, age which means none of this should be taken seriously.

[Asker]

@spartan55

so you support sexually violating and manipulating women?

[spartan55]

@asker
What does pointing out that you are a liar have to do with supporting anything?

[Asker]

@spartan55

i asked you a question.

do you support sexually violating and manipulating women?

[spartan55]

Of course not, but you won't even say what happened. You are using vague terms and conditions. And AGAIN none of what I said anything about supporting sexually violating and manipulating women. It's just a deflection tactic that's weak.

[EmmaMary]

Judging by your age, might one assume that this occurred many years ago?

[In_Trance]

Who's to blame here: the guy for trying or the girl for accepting?

[Asker]

since when is deceiving someone a morally acceptable thing to do?

[In_Trance]

morals don't exist

can you answer the question or not?

[Anonymous]

So your brother assaulted someone for wanting to have sex with you?

Why? Was he jealous?

[CuriousMufuxka]

I do not. Unless it was my girl. That mufucka would lose a lot more than a shoe.

[Anonymous]

um, no. This sounds like the way women manipulate men to get whatever they want too. Ain't nobody saying it's okay to beat them up for it.

[Anonymous]

Nope.
Girls scam men endlessly by using sex or the false promise of sex. Do you think those women deserve a beating as well?

[LiamJHayden]

How does someone "trick" a 30+ year old woman into sex? Your brother is fortunate that he is not in lock up for assault and battery.

[NotTacocaT6969]

How does a 27 year old man not understand manipulation?

I guess it’s hard to understand if you’ve never had another man pretend to be your friend just so he could stick it in your butt….

[Asker]

@NotTacocaT6969

i kept crying and didn't eat for 3 days after I found out he used me.

[slatyb]

You're brother is lucky he didn't press charges

[exitseven]

How do you trick a girl into bed,

[WanderingLoveWizard]

It's not worth an ass beating, no

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It's her own fault.

[Anonymous]

I have trick many girls never face this...