I know that unwarranted advice can be really rude, but personally, I would recommend against dating someone who smokes weed *often* and cannot even respond properly. If at all you guys start a romantic relationship and continue dating, is this how he is going to be half the time? High on weed? What about all the other important conversations that you might want to have in the future? Find yourself a man who would prioritize you over drugs.
I don’t think he blatantly rejected you. He was being honest. When you’re high, your brain cannot process important conversations properly and react accordingly. If you want to talk about this, you can meet him in person.
He didn't reject you. He was high and was a) not expecting that and b) cannot react.
Back in the day if I had jist hit a blunt that was sending me I *would not* be able to handle this type of conversation.
Looking back, I was a mess and not really the calibre of person I am today.
So the verdict - in my opinion - is that a low calobre guy is being honest when he says to you he is high and can't discuss it right now.
Whether I wanted to admit it or not, when I keefed my. life revolved around blunts.
Maybe you use drugs and that is the right fit for you I don't know.
Yeah never tell a guy you like him first.
It means exactly what it says. He is high right now.
He knows, (because even stoned as fuck, a guy would know this) that there is ZERO chance you wanted to just tell him this and leave it. You wanted a CONVERSATION. You wanted this to take time. This was gonna be a head wrecker of a conversation no matter how he felt or what he said.
And the worst time to be dragged into such a conversation is when you're high.
You were not rejected, your timing and social comprehension skills just suck huge amounts of ass.
I think a near interpretation is " Bro, not right now, I am high". Actually someone was being courteous enough to tell you that he/she was in no condition to respond intelligently to your conversation
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Who cares if HE rejected YOU. Reject HIM, not only because he does drugs but because he obviously doesn’t care about you at all. His response should literally be a red flag for you but instead you’re worried that he rejected you. . Fix your priorities PLEASE
6 hour update: Again, fix your priorities. Don’t move on because he’s not texting you back. Move on because he’s crap and doesn’t respect you.
I wouldn't take this as a rejection.
I don't know when I've been high, I literally can't talk to people, so I sympathize with him.
I would wait a few days and then bring it up again (probably during a different time of the day) or do it during a time that seems more natural. But if he responds the same way, you may be interested in a heavy stoner.
Sounds like you made a solid choice on that clown🤡
That's a massive red flag, you do not wanna date someone like that. He did you a favor. Block him and move on, because he's gonna do more childish shit that'll only annoy you.
The fact he gets so insanely high like that in the first place shows his level of maturity, which is very low.
With that stupid answer even if later he replies ok I like you too.. I would cancel him anyways
He is mentally retarded what do you like about him with that answer you can easily TELL you will be a single mama by 8 months.. plus some Chronic Herpes down there
Not rejected.
He was high on weed when he responded to your message and he was wise enough to not engage in a conversation of that magnitude while not sober.
You might have to remind him though, send him a '?' A day later.
Actually I just assumed it was weed but It might not be. But he's high.
I guess his weed is more important to him than you are. Take that as a warning.
The fact that he called you ‘bro’ should be proof enough that he doesn’t like you in that way.
Thats so awkward way to reject or answer anyone else.
Its a very rude behaviour and this person is not capable of handling relationships. Because he can't control his bad habbit and will hurt you agina and again its time to leave him
It sounds as if he said, "Not now, I'm high"? So you weren't rejected yet--maybe he was high and couldn't talk the serious talk.
I wouldn't read into anything until having another conversation with him. His response can be interpreted in various ways as shoes in the thread, so waiting until he's all there is a reasonable option to me.
@Boomchakalaca hey wreckless ambition worked didn't it!
Sorry @MyOwnMan2 was upset about something I said apparently and blocked me. So I'm on my own thread now. Yeah dating nowadays can be complex especially with dating apps. It's always good to express intentions early on to prevent that very situation. A lot of men are usually looking for physical activity.
Oh i was wondering why my reply to him didn't go through lol
Damn, he did you dirty no lie, can't even function high apparently, don't take it personal but I wouldn't repeat myself, I don't think you should.
Nothing, it means he can’t think clearly while high.
You were rejected. Also, the fact you had to ask him out means he never liked you hun. Stop being so masculine and pursuing a man
Thats not true, I've liked women before and never asked them out, lots of guys are like that.
Asking someone out is not masculine or feminine.
It also might not have been a rejection, weed makes people retarded.
Pursuing a man is very masculine. When a man wants you, he finds a way. He's not interested
You're delusional if you actually believe that 😂
@thespacegnome you're in denial.
Actually I'm not, you are.
Most guys these days wait until the woman asks, because society views men asking as "predatory". Before all that, it was about 50/50.
@thespacegnome Men who are confident, attractive and successful go after what they want. If a guy is passive like you've just described he is most likely 9 times out of 10 insecure, weak, unattractive and isn't successful. Sad but true.
You're definitely delusional 😂
He's to high to deal with your feelings and emotions. Think about that when its time for him to work and pay the bills & his response will be "I can't go to work and I didn't wash my clothes for the next day, cause im to high"
Maybe he was doing weed and was high at the minute.
No he rejected me I ask him if we can talk about in person and he didn’t look at it not once and I texted him that the same day and plus he read it so yea also been texting about it and still didn’t say nothing
@Asker Sorry about that aww
No problem
If you take his response in good faith, he was giving you a solid reason why he could not respond appropriately. The fact that he knew this and responded at all might suggest a good sign but we'll have to wait and see.
You might consider making future such emotional disclosures in person. That way you can see their reaction and they can't easily blank you.
No but you should clearly reject him. Don't go for junkies.
It means he’s mentally impaired at the moment and doesn’t want to accidentally say the wrong thing.
Seems more like he's aware that he's not mentally sober enough to say yes or no right now.
No, not really rejected he probably didn't wanna think about how he feels about you to and already knew while he was high.
Never heard a guy call a girl a bro, let alone postpone rejection for highness.
That's rude. Maybe just leave him alone. He might see it when he isn't high
it means he cares more about drugs than he does about you... not a good look. i'd be so turned off after that.
I think he’s rejecting you in a neutral way though so to not come across as too mean?
He's telling you, consciously or not, that you can do better.
We girls don't propose. We try to manipulate guys we like into liking us. Learn from your mistakes. Next time play it cool.
How does that work out for you? 🤔
What if he wanted to hear you out while he's normal? What if he doesn't want to be fight with you due to some other matters? You can wait i guess until he gets normal
he high that seem to be too bad. maybe wait till he not high. or fine a guy not on drugs.
Hard to come by with people our age
@Boomchakalaca ya well that kind suck I not high and I just drink on my B day. But I know what you mean young people suck and I hate my self and I hate my generation.
It just means that he knew he wasn't cognitive and wanted to give you an actual response later when he could focus.
you just leanred an important life lesson, pot heads are not people you should be dating. they will always disappoint you
@Juxtapose anecdotal fallacy. joe rogan is not normal and you should not be using him as the standard, most people do worse in life from using it, he just happens to be a lucky idiot
@Juxtapose no, alcohol is not a worse drug, in terms of x/y where x is the people having serious problems and y is the total people who use such substance pot is far worse than alcohol
@Juxtapose nothing you are saying here responds to my thesis, labeling alcohol bad does not make pot good. dating a pot head is still for losers and will result in sadness
@Juxtapose it is not the normal experience of pot smokers to "do well" in life
@Juxtapose what? did you do any research before saying that? no it isn't. do you even know the people involved in banning alcohol?
"Scientists at the University of Colorado Boulder conducted a review of existing imaging data that looked at the effects of alcohol and marijuana, or cannabis, on the brain.
Their findings linked alcohol consumption with long-term changes to the structure of white matter and gray matter in the brain.
The use of marijuana, however, seemed to have no significant long-term effects on brain structure."
@Juxtapose also from your article, weed linked to increased risk of psychosis https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/318276
also from your source: marajuana worse than cigarettes https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/318854
but hey that's just journalists they always dumb down their reporting on studies... lets look at science news from a scientist https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCoAufNclKI
@Juxtapose no it didn't, listen to the very next line of the video after the alcohol stats...
there is no reasoning with pot heads because their brains are mush
@Juxtapose then you commented on 1 sentence in the video, when the VERY NEXT SENTENCE debunked that sentence you quoted from
Lmao. I don't know. I hope you get a proper response when he's less high ^^
Does it even matter? From that response alone i’d instantly be turned off i wouldn't even care anymore.
Shocker
Ig he is just confused as he is high give him some time and talk to him in a while seriously about this , idts you are rejected he just must be confused
That guy is weak-willed if he can't even have our basic conversation after smoking some weed.
It's not a weak-will thing, thc biologically makes people retarded.
Every high person I've ever spoken with in my entire life sounded like a confused moron.
I've met a lot of weed smokers, they were almost all average or below average intellects, then retarded af while high. it blocks neurons related to memory and cognition, so of course it makes people dumb. The only exceptions to the rule, are going to be exceptionally intelligent people becoming slightly above average or average when high, but it's still the same effect, they simply had a much higher starting point.
Your motor skills and intellect are still halved while high, they are just much higher than most while not high.
Well to give you an idea, THC is a lot less impairing than alcohol. Being sleepy also impairs me more than THC.
"Your motor skills and intellect are still halved while high, they are just much higher than most while not high."
Normally I would think that is egotistical of me to agree with but I have run circles around people mentally even while high. People can do so much better but they don't.
Most people are average idiots who become clinically retarded while intoxicated because they have less neurons to start with.
I don't have an ego either, but I'd be lying if I said that if I ever got drunk or high, I'd not be just above average.
I don't use that stuff though even though I'd be able to fuction, because I want to be sharper than I am while sober, so any reduction I'd hate.
I'd rather focus on increasing my intellect and motor skills substancially.
Martial arts is high risk for damaging motor skills through impacts, and suffering severe injury or death. I'll stick to safer options like making art and music, playing video games, and studying.
My dad did get his ACL porn because someone tried to fucking flip him over their shoulder while his ankle was stuck in the mud.
But having been in it for 11 years, I can tell you that the human body is pretty resilient and if you're not stupid then you should be fine while training. My dojo had us train outdoors as well as indoors and the experience has been invaluable. I even know how to fall safely and that has had real life application.
Lol you said porn.
I can't think of a situation where kicking over my head is advantageous vs using my arms and/or a tool/weapon.
Also:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQKrmDLvijo
@TheSpaceGnome the same reason why your car can go way over the speed limit even though you don't ever use that speed. I have supreme balance and control over my legs, your legs are on average three times stronger than your arms and can mount an assault on your opponent from below while you hit them from above.
Weapons though.
He obviously wasn't paying attention. Move on. He's too high.
In what world is telling someone you like them supposed to work?
People pick up on subtle cues. Outright saying "i like you" is way too much, way too fast. Even if there was something there, it's a fast way to scare people off.
I told my high school crush “i have a crush on u” without knowing about him and we been dating for 5 years
Adults don't think like high-school kids...
And isn't it just common sense that telling someone that is forcing them to make a decision about you? Bad move
Man u must hav a sad life.
@Boomchakalaca you literally told them "I like you"?
I get my opinions from people 20-40 years older than me
@Zodiac10 oh yeah I knew you were going to pull out the "responsible and honest and mature" card. Scroll back to my original post. I clearly said "people pick up on subtle cues" just like a dog knows when another dog wants to fuck. You don't need words unless you're dealing with someone very dense
@Zodiac10 no one has "their own" opinions
Not your buddy
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Only reason i told him bc i was depressed and rlly waiting to be destroyed if he didn't liked me and homecoming was near and he was very attractive. I had nothing to lose 😂
Yeah i dont want to come off to just look for sex. Dating in ur 20s is way diff then in high school. I actually want to get to know the person and them being physically attractive makes me curious
@Zodiac10 amazing you think im giving a voice to your retarded ass. Get the fuck off My post
@Boomchakalaca whore
It means he was high mf. Wait for a text back holmes. If u dont get one, he prolly ain't interested
So he called you "Bro'? And he gets high. Good luck with that.
I can agree w u to an extent. Like if dis guy can b high and have a conversation and be able to conduct himself id think differently.. but wit dis guys response the way it was, i can agree w your comment
Nobody actually gets rejected like that and I’m not high
Sound like rejection why would a dude refer to you as bro?
Exactly. I am highly confused
@hIopinionated_ how so?
Why would a guy refer to a woman as “bro”. That was what you said. I was agreeing
@hIopinionated_ I never refer to a female as a bro! Weather she is a friend or partner
Yes. I think it’s weird. I agree. Women aren’t men so it doesn’t make sense
@hIopinionated_ I hate it when guys calls girls “dude” as well! A girl can call
Me dude or bro”.
Agree. Women or girls aren’t dudes. We totally need a new term though. I have a bad habit of referring to people as dude and guys
@hIopinionated_ I kinda like it when a girl calls me dude! One chick I used flirt with would call me dude
Lol it is a nice word. I get why you like it
@hIopinionated_ it kinda make me feel like I am the man when a girl calls me dude
I believe it sort of is a synonym for the word. Or maybe it’s cultural thing
@hIopinionated_ perhaps! U ever called ur boyfriend dude?
So many times. I called guys dude all the time.
I don’t have a boyfriend though. I have an ex. He’s my friend though
@hIopinionated_ sis you call him dude?
I tend to mostly call men dude when there’s a debate and I’m trying to make a point. I say it out if frustration. But sometimes I say it when excited (not sexually)
@hIopinionated_ oh ok gotcha! My ex used to say from time to time. As I said before I liked it
What makes you like it?
@hIopinionated_ I don’t know it makes me feel like the man in the relationship ik it sounds weird
Interesting pov
@hIopinionated_ people say I am interesting guy
@hIopinionated_ I wouldn’t refer to girl as bro! It sounds weird to me
You also seem nice
@hIopinionated_ thank! I appreciate that what make you say that?
You’re respectful. Respectful guys have the potential to be nice. Plus, you make sense even though we’ve only been talking about one thing lol. You don’t seem rude. You seem almost playful as well. That’s a good sign
@hIopinionated_ well thanks! Most girls take me for granted
@hIopinionated_ I am very play friendly and silly at times
Playful*
How do they take you for granted?
@hIopinionated_ they think I am too nice and sometimes they use me
To get whey they want
They’re just not the gals for you. Plus, if they think you’re too nice, they’re weird because there’s no such thing as too nice. When I think of nice I think of genuine people who are kind. I don’t understand the issue with that
@hIopinionated_ I wish more females thought like you. I think it is easier to be nice to be others.
I agree. There’s absolutely no reason to be rude or disrespectful to others especially if they aren’t rude or disrespectful to you
@hIopinionated_ it would be a better world if people were not rude! People here in Orlando Florida are rude
People in Texas are rude as well. It sucks. I just want to be alone, read books or play video games and go out sometimes but nooo people are insane 😭
@hIopinionated_ wow Texas rude? What happened to southern hospitality? I hear you about being alone…that is why I stick to training and hip hop. I like the fact that you have an interest in reading.
Omg I love books🥰. I’m always looking to learn something new or help myself with self help books. Being extremely shy isn’t ideal and I’ll take all the help I can get
@hIopinionated_ me 2 I used to be a bookworm 10 years ago! I need to get back into that. Reading books use to help me cough up some ill vocabulary. I would incorporate such vocabulary into my raps. I am glad you like learning. What books do you real. Nw I am shy as well
I do the same. I’m always happy to build up my vocabulary. I have all sorts of book but currently, I am reading a book called “tough love” on a website called wattpad. I have books I’ll like to buy but haven’t gotten around to it so i settled for a free book on a website for aspiring writers. It’s a really great read so I still love reading the book.
@hIopinionated_ do you write as well? What is the book tough love about? Books take ur mind places! It’s develops imaginations
I like the idea of writing a book because I’ve noticed major errors in past books I’ve said but I didn’t actually do it. Was just a thought
Tough Love is a very good book. It’s extremely sad but I love how realistic it is (I love things that make sense) . This is one of those I’ll totally buy a printed copy if the author ever publish it. I really wish she would but she wrote the book years ago.
It’s about a woman who was sold into sex trafficking as a teen and she tries to move on from that life with her new job years later (after faking her death and getting away from the Russian mob) but she has a photographic memory. And there’s this man, a leader of a swat team and he’s trying to love her but it’s tough because she’s so broken. It’s such a good book
@hIopinionated_ sounds very interesting how often you read? I need to start reading again
I wrote a very thorough response but it disappeared so I’ll just summarize what I remember. I’m more of a chapter a few times a week like of reading when it comes to texts that matter. Basically, when it comes to books that are for entertainment I’ll read chapters back to back but with self help books (or books for my classes) I’ll take my time reading those to annotate, make notes, and really study the text.
@hIopinionated_ I used to switch back and forth with books! I have to get back into reading! Keep reading it is so good for the mind’. I like romance novels, young adult novels, self improvement, and holistic books
Not exactly a rejection.
But it is definitely funny
That’s his weed talking
Not worth your time in my opinion
I would take that as a rejection
It might mean you like a drug addict.
It means that you can do better
I have no idea what "rn" means.
Right now
@Boomchakalaca Oh! So, he said, "right now now"? Are you sure it doesn't mean, "Registered Nurse"? It WOULD make more sense.
Sassy
Damn thats rude of him
It means he's NOT WORTHY! NEXT!
DON'T take him back, if he comes calling
Yeah 😂
I dunno. But it's hilarious.😆😆😆
It means you can do better
lololololololol XD
It means you’re rejected, and he’s deflecting
Means he’s a weirdo
You should find it funny bro
Not exactly
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