He was okay with it. Sometimes people (especially men) say the stupidest things because we got surprised and we know we need to reply something and fast. by the way guys do not have the same "I love you" -culture where we just openly say how we love everything and every friend we have like girls tend to do. So there's a higher threshold for us to say it, but when we say it we mean it. I think it goes also for saying that we liked someone, but it should be easier to say.
So...
1) he likes you back but was just surprised by your comment or
2) he haven't even thought about you in that way (if so, now he's trying to analyze what you meant by it and going crazy for not knowing if you were just friendly)
3) he doesn't like you
Like with most of stuff we guys do - Do not read too much into it and just let the things roll on. Now he knows you like him and in many cases.. it's a good start.
Maybe he got scared and didn't know what to say so he responded without thinking with "ok"... thats the best case scenario and the worst is, he doesn't like you... Try to wait few days and see if he's going to avoid you, or talk to you or... or... at this point we can only assume this 2 things.
You made a move now leave it alone. He may need to process it. He may not have thought about you that way. But that doesn't mean he doesn't like you at all he may have someone he is currently crushing on st s distance. And if he is he has to work that out see if he gets anywhere. It is good that you are outspoken so you will end up with what you want. My greatest mistake was not telling a guy how I felt we married other people and were both miserable. Had we both said how we felt we would be together now snd all those years ago. He may not be the one but at least you won't let the one get away
I mean he has an obligation to his friend, so I don't know if you were expecting him to blow off picking up his friend or what just because you made this declaration.
I'm sure he'll text you maybe and y'all can further discuss what you said, if he finds it worthy of something to be discussed. If he doesn't, then it's safe to assume he probably doesn't feel the same way.
give him time and wait...(: if nothing happens and he seems to not want to be around u or leave when ur there then he doesn't like u
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Just talk to him I'm sure he'll tell you how he feels. Most likely he was just shocked or surprised and he said the first thing he could to get out of the situation. He probably also wanted some time to think over what you said :) I'm sure it'll be fine
It sounds like he was caught off guard and didn't know how to respond. Give it time, maybe talk to him when he isn't running out the door.
No don't assume that, he was probably thrown off guard. Give him a little time and see if he says or shows that he likes you back.
Hmm that's odd. He could have been really shocked and unable to think properly or he just might be uninterested.
You had pretty crappy timing on that one, he was probabaly in a rush and you might have scared him with that. But yea, umm, that's weird, he probabaly doesn't care too much or already knew that
It's hard to say. He probably at least needs some time to process what you told him to know.
could mean anything give it abit of time see if he talks to you more and anyway well done for having the confidence for asking him in person :)
Probably surpsied since that's probably the first time that's happened. Most girls never express interest in a guy.
He doesn't dislike you, he sees you as a friend. He hasn't considered you romantically.
If a girl told me she liked me at this current moment, then I would never believe her.
Why is there a question mark after a statement?
You told him at a bad time...
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