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We get along hella well and like he’s different with me than the other girls of our year and just overall way before we started talking I would catch staring at me and stuff and even till now when he sees me he fixes himself and all that anyways there are quite some things that lead me to thinking that he may be interested but the thing is I’m not sure and too scared to find out
I feel like there’s something between us but why hasn’t he still not made a move?
Anonymous
(18-24) 
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It's understandable to feel unsure and scared about finding out if someone is interested in you. However, the only way to truly know is to communicate with them directly. It's possible that he may also be feeling hesitant or unsure about making a move, or maybe he hasn't realized that he's sending signals that make you think he's interested.
One way to approach this is to start by spending more time with him and observing his behavior. You can also try flirting with him and see how he responds. If you feel comfortable, you can also try initiating physical touch such as lightly touching his arm or shoulder and seeing how he reacts.
If you're ready to take things further, you can also consider telling him how you feel and asking him if he feels the same way. It's important to approach the conversation in a non-confrontational and non-judgmental way, and to be prepared for any response he may give. Remember that it's okay to take things slow and to prioritize your own comfort and boundaries.
Gosh thank you for this ! I’ll have to try next time I see him
you're welcome always!
I have a question about the physical touch so one time he was showing me a video on a his phone about a joke we have together and like I kinda quickly grazed his hand whilst laughing and he kinda freaked and pulled his hand back. what does that mean? And another time we were in a group outdoors in a circle and he moved places to come stand next to me and whilst I was laughing I kind off leaned on his side about to touch his arm or something but he kinda pushed back but then came back closer next to me. I don’t get it because I’m tryna reassure myself saying “oh he probably just gets freaked out and doesn’t know what to do” blablabla even though it probably couldn’t be that at all
It's difficult to say for sure without more context, but it's possible that the person you're referring to might be uncomfortable with physical touch or may not be interested in you in a romantic or physical way. Alternatively, they may simply have been surprised by your sudden touch and not known how to react in the moment. It's important to respect people's boundaries and personal space, and if someone seems uncomfortable with physical touch, it's best to avoid it in the future. However, if you're unsure about their feelings towards you, it might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation to clarify where you both stand.
sorry for being long I just needed someone’s opinion on this
Yeah that’s what I thought thank you !
But then again he has also touched me on several occasions too
No need to apologize, I'm here to help and listen. It's important to talk about and process our feelings and experiences. Do you have any other questions or concerns related to this topic?
No need to apologize, I'm here to help and listen. It's important to talk about and process our feelings and experiences. Do you have any other questions or concerns related to this topic?
Well it’s just that there’s a lot of uncertainty and I feel like if you’re at a point asking yourself “are they interested or not” then it probably isn’t the case you know? And like yeah I would just like to know because if it were up to me I would say yeah he likes me but then again he hasn’t made any moves, we hardly snap etc so yeah
I understand how confusing and frustrating it can be to try and read someone's intentions when there is uncertainty. It's important to remember that not everyone communicates their feelings in the same way or at the same pace. Some people may be more reserved or hesitant to make a move, while others may be more direct and assertive.
It's also important to communicate your own feelings and boundaries clearly, so that you can both have a better understanding of where you stand with each other. If you're interested in him, you could try initiating conversations or suggesting hanging out, and see how he responds. If he seems receptive, you could also try expressing your feelings or asking him directly if he's interested in you romantically.
Remember that at the end of the day, you deserve someone who is interested in you and willing to put in effort to pursue a relationship. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and move on if you're not getting the attention and effort you need.
Yeah you’re completely right thanks again
you're welcome.. İf you need help you can write it. God blees you!
Yes no problem thank you ! God bless
I just remembered another weird thing : So yk now we’re friends like really and so multiple times now when he arrives like before classes he would walk literally right in front of me and ignore me and greet everyone else around me because I’m friends with his friends too so we were all kind of together with my girls, like literally right in front me not acknowledge me but greet everyone else except me and then I would feel him looking at me whilst talking to his friends and this other time I was with a friend of mine and we crossed paths with him and he literally only said hi to her and didn’t even look at me like this I don’t get because either after he would be staring at me or he would come up and start a conversation and like I wanted to confront him about it but I didn’t do it I don't know
It sounds like he's sending mixed signals and being inconsistent in his behavior towards you. It's understandable that you're feeling confused and unsure about where you stand with him. It might be worth having a conversation with him about how his actions are making you feel, and asking for clarification on what he wants from your relationship. It's important to communicate your needs and boundaries in any relationship, whether it's just friends or something more.
But like why do that you know like I’m for sure gonna have a conversation about this with him next time I see him but like I just don’t get the reason tho
It's hard to know for sure without more context or information, but there could be a variety of reasons why he's acting cold or distant. It could be that he's just not that interested in you, he could be going through personal issues or stress that's affecting his behavior, or he may have different expectations or ideas about the relationship than you do. The best way to find out why he's behaving this way is to have an open and honest conversation with him about it.
Yeah for sure I really do have to speak with him
communication is a key