If a guy has not responded to my message all day, can I message him this :?

[Anonymous]

it doesn’t seem like you really want to talk at the moment, so I’m going to give you your space :)

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's okay to send a message like that if you feel like the person is not responding and you want to give them space. It's important to communicate your feelings and boundaries in a clear and respectful way. However, keep in mind that there could be a variety of reasons why the person hasn't responded, such as being busy or having technical difficulties with their phone or messaging app. So it's always good to approach the situation with an open mind and not jump to conclusions.

[aoihewgf]

Do you get you retsrded answers from some ai chat service? She would be needy AF, and it would be highly unattractive because she would be saying in effect, that her whole day has been consumed with her waiting by her phone for his reply which is lame beyond belief

[Asker]

I see what you’re saying and I agree, but I already sent the text, so… I just know what not to do for next time I guess. Thanks for the advice

[aoihewgf]

Just. to clarify, I'm not calling you lame. Just saying the act would be seen as such. Many years ago, that was me

[Asker]

Yeah I understood what you were saying. I’m working on it. Tbh whether I’m speaking with friends or people I like, I tend to care a lot. Especially if we talk pretty much everyday. When they switch up, I notice and it’s just really annoying when they don’t know how or won’t communicate properly like adults.

[aoihewgf]

He likely isn't actually that busy. He trying to make you think he is though. He probably on his couch watching TV,. But as you'll agree, he has created a large emotional response from you by not messaging, good or bad emotions, doesn't matter, all that matters is he's all you thinking about.

[Asker]

But see that’s so immature 😂😂😂 like dude that’s so crazy. Like HE CONFESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME 😂 now he’s acting like the catch. This is so funny to me

[Asker]

Also it’s so manipulative! Why do guys do stupid stuff like that when they like somebody?

[aoihewgf]

Everyone plays the game whether the realize it or not. Ever shit test a guy without even realizing you were?

[aoihewgf]

One last comment in response to "the catch". If he isn't the catch, that means you are and consequencently you should find someone better. Why be with someone who is beneath your level?

Don't women want guys who are smarter, stronger, makee more money, etc?

And men want girls who are the opposite?

[Asker]

You are so right! Thank you for your honesty, I really needed it. I honestly appreciate you taking the time out to respond to my messages.

[aoihewgf]

🫡🍉

[aoihewgf]

Whatever you do, do not send that text. If he didn't respond, do not text him back again tonight. In fact, don't text him tomorrow. Let him wonder why you've stopped texting and hopefully he initiates. After tomorrow, if he still hasn't, send one more text and if he doesn't respond, move on

[Asker]

I sent the text 😂😂 you should have commented earlier. I sent the text because that is how I felt. I won’t apologize for that. His vibe changed and I let him know where to get off, but nicely

[Asker]

But after that text I just sent, I washed my hands of it, so yeah

[aoihewgf]

Please refer to reply I posted under @jasondaman retarded post

[Anonymous]

I mean yeah but id just drop him after that for good. No thank you.

[Kaneki05]

Girls who make the effort should be cherished

[TheBootyChest]

I would do that myself. But I have been told to just give them the space. You might be doing more harm than good.

[Asker]

Okay. I just feel like they were very happy to text and talk on the phone but now it seems like we haven’t really talked in the past couple of days, so I don't know what’s going on?

[TheBootyChest]

I get anxiety about this situation. 😫 I think that I did something wrong or whatever. But sometimes they just have a bad day and don't want to talk to anyone.

[Asker]

But shouldn’t they just communicate that. Like he told me he was crushing on me and liked me, so for him to now act funny and barely talk to me is so odd!

[TheBootyChest]

It is odd but we can't read their minds and vice versa.

[Asker]

I’m just over it, so I’m just going to leave it alone. It takes too much energy to try and figure out what they are trying to communicate when they aren’t communicating. I’m just done

[TheBootyChest]

Message me. We can talk more. I know what you are going through.

[Asker]

Ok. I’m just going to say I’m giving them space and then leave them alone. I like to express myself and just because they don’t want to speak doesn’t mean I won’t.

[TheBootyChest]

I want to express myself too. Because I want them to know where I am coming from but also because I want to learn how they operate.

[Asker]

Yeah i get that. I just went ahead and sent this message : it doesn’t seem like you really want to talk at the moment, so I hope you’re doing well & I’m going to give you your space :)

[TheBootyChest]

I like the part about doing well. That sounds better.

[Asker]

Yeah me too! If I hear anything back, I’ll give you an update :) thanks for all your help and for hearing me out. I really appreciate it

[TheBootyChest]

I can't wait to hear more.

[spartan55]

That's a great way to get him to never respond.

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[spartan55]

Too presumptious, passive aggressive. Are you even dating this guy?

[Asker]

No I’m not. But he hadn’t text me all day and this has happened twice. This is not like him at all. He would send a lot of voice messages and long paragraphs. His energy was avoidant, so I let him now that I wasn’t going to waste my time. Also he told me he liked me and was crushing hard. I never asked for that information he volunteered it then he started acting distant. I don’t have time for games. Like how do you go from blowing my phone up to not texting at all? Dude was acting mad weird 😂😂

[spartan55]

Alrighty then...

[spartan55]

You are acting very girlfriendy...

[Asker]

How? Don’t you think it’s weird that someone who’s blowing your phone up everyday talking about how much they enjoy talking to you just suddenly stops? A lot of people would wonder what happened? It’s just common courtesy for the other person to at least communicate. But honestly I don’t even care anymore. I haven’t heard anything and I really don’t expect to at this point

[spartan55]

Texting ruins another one before it even gets off the ground.

[Asker]

How? Explain

[spartan55]

You know what? I want to revise my opinion since he was all over you then he wasn't. That's difficult for me to grasp because I've never done that.

[Asker]

See, it makes no logically sense

[spartan55]

Sometimes that's how it goes though. You to know when to let stuff go. It's terrible for your mental health.