Guy is not responding to my messages after I went on a 1 week hiatus?

[Ofoceansbeaches]

Is it me or he is just depressed?

I'm not really sure if this is the reason but the guy is not responding to my messages and not even logging in to his account on facebook.

I deactivated my facebook for quite sometime and the last messages we had there was that we plan to see each other and me sharing some stuff related to my life and we were still super sweet. He even invited me to visit his house. It's my habit to deactivate so he didn't have a problem with that in the past.

Is he mad or just sad in general? I totally understand by the way and do not hold it against him if he disappears. Just that i want to know what normally causes guys to withdraw.

Ps. He also did this to me last time and his reason was he got addicted to venting to me always about all his problems.

I dont think this is the reason now because i'm the one who frequently vents to him now and I can sense he does care about me a lot. He even emotionally supports me like a boyfriend does.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that’s so weird that he’s just not responding now after everything seemed good! Guys can be so confusing sometimes I swear.

A few things it could be:

- He might be going through something personal and needed space to work through it. We all get in funks.

- Possibly got bored since you weren’t on social media so easily accessible. Some dudes have short attention spans.

- Could be having second thoughts about inviting you over or things feeling too “real” between you. Cold feet.

- Maybe your hiatus reminded him of when he’d rely on you too much before, and now he’s pulling away to avoid that. Guys are dumb.

I wouldn’t assume it’s anything you did wrong though! Try giving it a few more days then casually text like “hey stranger” to test the waters. Watch his response closely - if he stays withdrawn he’s probs not that into it. But maybe he’ll realize he missed you! Don’t stress too much girl, you deserve someone hype to hang no matter what.

[Alex8736]

When you were on that date with him was he on his phone texting people in your presence?