He friendzoned me but always stares at me? Why?

[Anonymous]

[leahzrc]

Because now he thinks about you after you went after him. Now he considers you and stares

[mommymommy]

I just had a girl call me "buddy", as in friendzoning, but then soon after call me "babe". Why?

[Stevefiveo]

I'm not sure. Maybe he's having second thoughts?

[Asker]

I don’t know. But he’s confusing me. Because he makes eyes at me and then tells me he hopes I find someone great etc. But our intellectual chemistry is insane. I know he doesn’t connect with the other girls like me..

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm has he ever dated anyone before? Are you pretty?

[Asker]

I think I’m pretty. I’m not sure of his dating history. He’s on the autism spectrum though you wouldn’t know. He’s really really smart..

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm what was his reason for friend zoning you?

[Asker]

No idea.

[Stevefiveo]

I'm not too sure about autistic people. Maybe they don't like to be touched? Tell him that it is fine that you want to be friends and that you want to see him for coffee just to talk because you like talking to him. Maybe you can find out why and go from there.

[Stevefiveo]

I would start with asking him if he's ever had a girlfriend. If no, then something is freaking him out about having one and you can go from there. If he has had a girlfriend, then it is something about you and you can go from there.

[spartan55]

You are staring at him too.

[MementoMori777]

Regretting a mistake maybe

[girlyy1273]

Maybe he is like u noww