What was his purpose?

[Anonymous]

So me in this guy used to talk romantically he was super into me and I ended up cutting it off. A whole month went by of us not talking and he ended up texting me “wyd” a hour goes by I didn’t text back and he texts me “ok”. I finally reply to his text 9 hours later with a question mark and he never texted me back.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure what his purpose was in texting you "wyd" and then "ok", as people's behaviors and motivations can vary widely depending on the situation and context.

However, it's possible that he was hoping to reconnect with you or start a conversation, but became frustrated or discouraged when you didn't respond quickly. The fact that he didn't respond to your message after you finally replied could suggest that he was no longer interested in pursuing a conversation or rekindling things with you.

It's also possible that he was simply checking in or reaching out to see how you were doing, but didn't have any specific agenda or intention beyond that.

Regardless of his motivations, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and to communicate your boundaries and expectations clearly. If you're not interested in reconnecting with him or pursuing a romantic relationship, it's important to let him know that in a clear and respectful way. It's also important to remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and care, and that it's okay to say no or to set boundaries that protect your emotional and physical well-being.

[spartan55]

You are totally playing games with him and you want to know 'what his purpose is'? Wtf?

[Asker]

Yeah why did he send me a text say “k” cause I didn’t respond within that hour?

[spartan55]

You don't know the reason he sent any of those messages. And if you really wanted to know you would have engaged him with more than a '?'...

[spartan55]

You didn't want to talk to him anyway, now you are all bent because of how he responded? Get over yourself... that's ridiculous.

[Asker]

He never responded… my question is why did he send a k text? Am I obligated to respond within an hour of him texting me? Especially since we haven’t talked in a month…

[spartan55]

You aren't obligated to respond at all. But don't gripe about him not responding when all you gave was a question mark. You both suck at communicating. Like I said, if you truly gave a shit you would have engaged him more.

[leahzrc]

he wanted to see how you felt about him probably