Apart from having bad anger issues and trust issues my husband doesn't know the limits during having s3x. People from my part of the world tend to be less educated about s-x and don't know what is counted as r-pe in the world. He had done it with me while I was asleep. He told me smiling the next day that he did it with me and if I could sense it. It was a kink of his to do it while I'm asleep. I didn't think of it much. Another day we came to my mom's house and he was undressing me midsleep and trying to get in. I sensed it midway and I was shocked and didn't say anything. I couldn't believe what was happening. He told me that he did it with me. I said why? he said it was weird for him that I slept with my ex boyfriend in that house and he didn't. Laterhe said he was also half asleep and it was an I instinct. Another day he again told me he tried to do it and that I was conscious and talked to him. He also said I said a very mean thing to him and insulted him. Please believe me guys I don't remember anything. the second time I was mad and said it's a bad thing and he apologized. The third time it escalated when I said I wasn't awake.
Is it okay? If someone doesn't know that you can r-pe your wife by doing it while she's unconscious is it still a bad thing?
I'm at my home now because he was getting violent with his trust issues saying I hang out with guys and my ex. He screams shouts takes my phone to check it. Now he's all sobs and sorry. But I don't believe him. He was depressed and begging for a few days. Then he became really calm and confident saying he's changed and taking meds given by the psychiatrist. Few days later I stopped communication because I was getting traumatized and overwhelmed by his begging. And now he's angry that I planned to leave him. Why I only remember the bad things and not the good things.
