How to get rid of someone who pretends to be a friend but you know for sure that you are nothing more than a fleshlight to him?

[Anonymous]

He does maintain the outward appearance of a very good friend and nice human being with adorable ethics.

But he also always laughs at me with others when they are making fun of me.

[D_Bone_Steak]

use you like a fleshlight? wait a minute, hold up. So you're a gay? Just want to make sure I'm understanding this situation. If it has a sexual connotation involved it's different than just a friend.

Laughing at you with others... yeah, that's not a good friend. I would suggest putting some space between you two and find friends that aren't as ready to throw you under a bus for their own amusement or the amusement of others.

If and only if, this is also some sort of situationship, this could be an example of you dealing with a narcissist. Tearing you down is just part of the narcissist modus operandi. He's trying to keep you under his boot and under his control.

[Anonymous]

Tell him how you feel and then cut him off permanently/.

[Asker]

I didn't cut his off yet but I did tell him how unhappy he makes me feel many many times and he always convinced me that he never did anything to hurt me intentionally and that I am looking at it that way because people pick on me often and it has made me not to trust anyone.

He also attaches some of my usual flawed behavioural mistakes and certain specific events where I lost my cool completely to tell a nice story and I don't buy it but I also can't counter it logically.

[Anonymous]

Same just happened to me. I finally cut him off

[Asker]

I want to do it too most people already have their suspicions about me being gay but if he talks he would be handing them a conformation