I'm sorry I just can't deal with my friend anymore. We've been friends for like 18 years. She's always been not that great. Never says thank you. In high school she took my crush one time to date him for 2 weeks for no reason and even showed PDA in front of me. On purpose for some reason? And she even knew I liked him. I don't know why I didn't end it there... She ditched me multiple times for guys over the years too. I seriously don't know how she even got married or how he deals with her. She always wants people to feel sorry for her even tho she has it all...
Well this year I think I've had it. She didn't even say happy birthday to me. Days have gone by, still nothing. I need to know how to stop being stepped on by this ungrateful person. Thing is, I'm friends with her sibling too so I can't hang out with one without the other without that potentially creating drama. But I am just so done. I feel hurt and annoyed.
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I get it! I was friends with someone since high school and we cut ties more recently after 15+ years. Same sort of reasons, she was selfish, narcissistic and our friendship became very one-sided during the last few years.
My biggest advice is to end it before things get bad. I made the mistake of repeatedly talking myself out of ending that friendship for good, because she had her redeeming qualities, we had so many great memories and I loved her like my sister! But the resentment you’re building is going to overflow and explode one day. If you go separate ways now then at least there’s hope to do it somewhat amicably to where you can at least be cordial.
It is Hard when the Other has a Sibling you can't Exclude. This a Tough One. All you can Do with Someone who is so Wicked (I have aJealous and Resentful Sister that is Hurtful) Is either Ignore Her when NOT with Her and Put up with Her when you Wish to Hang with the other Sister. Your choice. I feel you!!! xxoo
Aww you have such a wonderful heart
i really don't. it filled with pent up resentment