What makes a guy hate you yet be possessive of you?

[happyfoetus]

I have known a guy. he hates me which is okay but then act a bunch lot of possessive and hurt we hen he came to know of my boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

It's possible that this guy has unresolved feelings for you and is struggling with jealousy or resentment towards your current boyfriend. His possessiveness and hurt may be stemming from a desire to be with you, but feeling unable to express those feelings or act on them.

Alternatively, his behavior may be a result of his own insecurities or issues that have nothing to do with you. He may feel threatened by the presence of another man in your life or may be struggling with his own feelings of inadequacy or jealousy.

Regardless of the underlying reasons for his behavior, it's important to set boundaries and prioritize your own emotional wellbeing. If his behavior is making you uncomfortable or hurting you, it's important to communicate that to him and to establish clear boundaries for your interactions.

It may also be helpful to seek support from trusted friends or a therapist to process your feelings and gain perspective on the situation. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects and values you, and who is willing to communicate honestly and openly about their feelings and intentions.

[Quackthulu2]

Huge red flag. Stay away from that one.

[happyfoetus]

He isn’t my friend even

[Quackthulu2]

Still, that’s clastic “nice guy” or incel behavior.