Why would a guy say he hates you?

[scarred_teenager]

I've had this guy friend and we were kinda close. And then one day he told someone that he hates me, the person he told that to ( she is one of my close friends so) asked why and he said he just does.
The thing is that we were real good friends, we spoke and we texted. He always kept the conversation going and i though he cared about me.
Why are you guys complicated?
Please help

[Anonymous]

Chances are he doesn't just want to be friends. Guys usually have more in mind. You're probably dealing with a teenager so its probably sexual urges buuuut...
Have you considered there could be unspoken feelings that he tried to get you to reciprocate with some flirting you didn't realize was flirting? I would say it is highly likely if he took the time to make you feel like he cares about you.
I often hear girls say they hate how guys hide their feelings but more often than not they are just hidden between the lines just like a lot of girls do.
I once heard a girl say that she just plays dumb when she thinks or hopes a guy likes her in order to get him to come out with it. I think this is not very smart, I think it would be better for her to face the possibility of rejection or speed things along to her rejecting him.

[scarred_teenager]

so you mean he has feelings for me?

[bizzz]

He most likey doesn't hate you. Unless you did something to him, or he found out something about you that he doesn't like, he can temporarily hate you. But if you didn't do anything, than he's just saying that. I said that too a couple times. This girl i'm friends with, we hang out pretty often.. but I like making jokes at her and being mean. But deep down, i really like her as a person and she is super cool. When people ask me why I mess with her and joke with her because they think I like her, I just say I hate her.

[scarred_teenager]

thanks x

[bizzz]

no problem :)

[Diego9O]

Maybe he knows something about you that he doesn´t like. The best thing you can do is trye to talk to him seriously about what he sed.