My boyfriend stopped giving me head and just looked at me, what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

So earlier this week my boyfriend was giving me head when he just stopped and looked up at me awkwardly smiling. I just smiled back because i wasn’t sure what he was expecting me to do or say. After like 10 seconds of that he came back and we started kissing again. It was a strange moment and i wasn’t sure if i did something wrong. But feels far too weird to ask now. Any ideas what might have happened?

[Anonymous]

Please ask him, for your own peace of mind. It’s not weird to ask after a few days, just tell him you weren’t sure how to put it or however you want to say it. I know this isn’t the answer you want but the thing is, you have to be able to talk to him about what’s on your mind, big or small. If there’s anyone you shouldn’t overthink with or worry about looking a certain way to, it’s the man you plan to be with in the foreseeable future. Not every conversation will be comfortable or fun to have, doesn’t mean you should avoid the topic altogether. That’s how you create openness and vulnerability with one another.

[Asker]

That is very true. Thank you!

[KimmyKimchi]

Maybe he thought you were done lol, you should just ask him it's not weird

[Asker]

Is it weird bringing it back up again?

[KimmyKimchi]

I don't think so, you can bring it up casually & smile so he knows you're not mad about it
Otherwise not knowing will drive you crazy lol, it's really probably not a big deal

[Gingerbread_GB]

If he's smiling, it should mean that he's enjoying it. Maybe he's enjoying your body's reaction or your moaning or something. Like everyone has already said, only he can tell you exactly why.

[boggboss]

How could anybody answer that lol u needed to ask

[boggboss]

I'm guessing he got bored or tired if it

[Asker]

Hahaha i know I should have. Just so awkward lol. Yeah probably, but he was the one who initiated, it’s a bit strange

[boggboss]

I would say its equally as strange that u wpuldnt ask to be honest lol

[Asker]

really? what should i have said?

[boggboss]

Is somthing wrong?

[Asker]

yeah that’s good. ugh, annoyed i didn’t say anything now

[boggboss]

So just ask him the other day when u was going down on me and you just stopped did I do somthing wrong or was everything alright how can u not be comftble enough to talk to the guy u are with