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I take a pretty intense martial art class and it’s mostly guys.
most of the guys are pretty nice, but there are a large handful that are pretty rude and sexist saying things like women are too weak to compete against men
Girls, Tips on dealing with arrogant men while competing?
Anonymous
(18-24) 
What Girls Said
They are all thinking it even if they don't say it. You know why? Most women ARE too weak to compete against men in martial arts. Just sayin.
That tune quickly changes when I nail them in the balls
"I take a pretty intense martial art class and it’s mostly guys."
"That tune quickly changes when I nail them in the balls"
You are sooooooo full of shit.
Those are just fragile men and the only way to deal is to match their energy, beat them, or both.
It seems like they even pissier when I beat them, and always make an excuse.
This is a self defense style class and they think it’s cheating when we aim for the groin even though it’s a legal target
Oh for sure, only real men can take an L lol if I were you I’d talk shit back. I don't know if you do already but if you don’t then I bet a few good comebacks when they target you would do the trick. Also with the groin thing I think that’s something to aim for in a real-life situation but not for practice because of how bad you could hurt them. I knew a woman back in school who kneed a guys balls like up
Into the sack lol, he was sent to emergency care.
The thing is these guys are usually double my size, I’m pretty short and overweight and these have are all over 6ft and solid muscle.
Groin shots are the only real weapon I have
But you beat them without that right? Men won’t respect a groinshot in order to win, they’ll say it’s cheating for sure.
No they typically wipe the floor with them, they are too strong generally, if I’m lucky enough to get their balls, they drop to the floor immediately
Who typically wipes the floor with them? The other women or yourself? I’m only asking because if you can beat them fair and square I wouldn’t fight them. Because then if they win they’ll talk more shit than they were in the first place lol
*can’t beat
It’s rare that a woman can beat one of the guys in a match, usually only guys can beat other guys.
Our instructor is a female and she recommend we use groin shots as this is supposed to be a self defense class and the boys use their size and strength advantage
Why would she recommend going for the groin if it’s cheating? I’m also not sure how these guys are in a self defense class yet disrespecting the women they’re supposed to help.
It’s not cheating, targets aren’t off limits in this class because it’s training for real life scenarios, so instead of doing normal fights, we start in Scenarios where one person pretends to be the attacker and the other fights them off
Cool, I only mentioned the cheating thing because of what you’d said earlier. So if it’s not cheating then great, use it to your advantage lol. But anyway those are my suggestions, best em or put them in their place verbally, if you don’t already. It’s all standing up for yourself
Would you not target that area? I meant the guys call it cheating because they can’t do the same move to us lol
Ohh okay, gotcha lol. And personally if my I structure told me to go for the groin specifically then sure I would here or there, but I don’t really need “practice” once I know where it’s at. If they leverage that and talk shit to me about going for the groin I wouldn’t want to give them any more fuel to that than I have to if this makes sense. I’d would either ignore or talk shit back, but that’s just me as a person who’s enjoys hitting someone with a good comeback. Especially fragile fatherless men lol.
**instructor
What do you mean by you don’t need practice once you know where it is?
What surprised me is that even delivering an open palm slap to his balls will drop him instantly and it’s not even that hard
What I mean is like the class is to learn self defense and practice what you’ve picked up right? There’s moves and whatever that you haven’t really perfected or know how to utilize, so that’s what you do in the class. Kicking someone in the groin or balls is easy, I don’t need to practice in order to learn it. So I won’t do that often. I’d rather not give those guys any ammunition to talk shit. I can hear it now, “all you know how to do is kick people in the balls you could never beat me fair and square”.
Would it surprise you if you gave a guy a fairly light slap in the balls and he dropped to his knees? All of them are like double my size and super ripped
Hmm, I feel like I’ve spoken with you before except it was about your boyfriend wrestling. You have a fixation with balls, that’s what stands out lol
Hah I don’t think so
I wish I had a boyfriend though. I just want to be able to compete with the guys
Yeaaah it was like I’d say something and you’d keep turning it back to the dudes balls lol not a lot of people talk like that. But anyway, I hope it works out for you, match their energy☺️🙏
Oh this was like over a year ago, but certain situations I encounter on here sticks with me
Like when I get paired up with a hot guy who is nice I’ll go out of my way to avoid his jewels.. don’t wanna damage the goods!