Will a one night stand text you back?

[Anonymous]

About a week ago. I had a one night stand for the first time. Everything was good and such. The next day when I left, the guy I hooked up with told me that he would text me when he woke up. I though he just said it and didn’t mean it. Well, he did text and saying things like let’s hangout again after the festival, I’ll take you to somewhere nice. And I answered all right we’ll see to him and he just liked my message, and that’s it. We are no longer texting. There’s only him liked my story in instagram once.

Is there any chance he would text back? well just to be clear i’ve not fallen into him. I only like our sex. It was good and I really want to do it again.

[summiter]

You may have to take the initiative and text or better yet call him. Tell him you want some more sex... most guys would love to hear that. How old is he... do you get the feeling that he is definitely single?

[Asker]

he’s 4 years older than me (im 19 and he’s 23). And yes he’s definitely single!

[summiter]

Go for it if you want to. Don't forget to have tons of condoms around!

[Wise4myage]

Consider send him a text, and ask if he still wants to hang out, but nothing beyond that.

[DownInTheDumps]

I'll be surprised because your replies to him basically came across as you not interested in hanging out

[Asker]

bruh😭😭😭 well i didn’t mean it that way tho but i see what u mean 🥹

[Jazzy54]

It’s hard to tell. He may have just wanted sex and that’s it.

[Jazzy54]

I wouldn’t hold my breath, if I were you.

[Asker]

Well the thing is we didn’t agree to be a one night stand properly tho. Actually we didn’t even name it. I just assumed it to be a one night stand. So i really don’t know if i should text or not. I think the same way as you as well but at the same time the others also make me think that the reason he doesn’t text is because the way i replied

[Jazzy54]

Okay, regardless of what you want to call the situation, he may have just wanted sex.

[Anonymous]

what part of one night stand don't you understand? if you fully understood the concept of a one night stand you wouldn't be asking this question

[spartan55]

Could you act any less interested? wow.

[Asker]

Are you being sarcastic or smth 🥲

[spartan55]

No, I'm being serious. You came off as very indifferent and uninterested, yet you still want him to be text you again?
I think what @summiter said is a good way to approach it. Just hit him up and say you want some more of that D. This will put his mind at ease about you wanting something more serious. Don't fall into the stupid mindset that he has to message first and if you do you are 'desperate' (one of the dumber myths most girls regard as absolute truth)
Hook up deals are supposed cut away all the relationship-ey bullshit.

[Asker]

now i get it. Thanks a lot.

[spartan55]

It's not too late, but I'd act quickly.

[spartan55]

Good luck!