Would you consider this behavior of a "man" or "boy"?

[Anonymous]

Very emotional & hot headed

Obsessed with winning, glory, power

Whines constantly & blames others if things don't go his way

Refuses to take responsibility

Always has to have the final say or win in anything

[Badkitty41]

That is what you call a parasite. A narcissist toxic and very immature douche bag.. better to throw that to the buzzards..

[mandyfire98]

That's a child's behavior. Definitely not attractive behavior

[Asker]

How would the opposite sex view this behavior?

How would dating (if any) go for him with this behavior?

[mandyfire98]

It would be viewed as childish and unattractive. Not well. He wouldn't ever be in a good relationship.

[Asker]

Even if the guy is attractive? If he is?

[mandyfire98]

He wouldn't be. That behavior makes them understand

[mandyfire98]

Unattractive

[Asker]

WOW

But this behavior is common with guys who are mostly fatherless & raised by single mothers

I heard that being stoic or monotone & having that "blue collar" mentality of getting "shit fixed" is what woman like

[mandyfire98]

Women like emotional maturity and a guy who can confidently take care of himself and act like a man. Not a child.

[Asker]

So being stoic/monotone but with masculinity "oozing" if that makes sense?

[mandyfire98]

You don't have to be completely stoic. You're allowed to have feelings but too much is definitely not good. It's called emotional maturity

[Asker]

What about being able to fix things literally? I heard that woman like that

[AMS700CX4u2]

Definitely adolescent. You had better ask a psychiatrist.

[Asker]

So he isn't a "threat" to men in the dating & mating game?

[AMS700CX4u2]

No, unless you respond to it.

[Asker]

Respond?

[AMS700CX4u2]

If you modify your behavior so that he doesn't have an opportunity to go ballistic when his "superiority" is challenged. That is called manipulation.

[Asker]

I don't understand something though

Men & boyfriends of woman/girls usually try to "one up" me passively (I can do more of "XYZ" than him) in front of their wives/girlfriends

The females don't even fancy me so I don't understand why their "man" feels the need to want to start shit

[AMS700CX4u2]

They must see you as a threat.

[Sparkie460]

A whiney ass little boy who throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way

[Asker]

Is this behavior common if the father isn't around?

[Sparkie460]

It could be since he didn't have a father to reprimand him while he was growing up

[Asker]

How would the opposite sex view this wild behavior?

[Sparkie460]

It would not appeal to most women

[Sparkie460]

Is this how you are

[Asker]

Yeah

[Sparkie460]

You're not a baby anymore. Time to grow up and take responsibility for your actions. You won't get any girl acting like that.

[Asker]

My father is not in the picture so I was raised strictly by my mother so I must of inherited typical female attributes like being overly emotional for trifile shit &;playing the blame game

That's how woman are right?

[Sparkie460]

No not all women are like that. I think it depends on how they were raised.

[noohair]

More of a child than a boy. I sounds like he ids doomed to never be a man. The first thing a man does is to take responsibility.

[LazerBean]

A boy. One without a father, at that.

[Asker]

Is this behavior common if the father isn't around?

[LazerBean]

More common than that of boys with present fathers, yes.

[Asker]

So all this wannabe macho tough guy act is overcompensating? How would the opposite sex view this behavior?

[LazerBean]

Being irresponsible is the opposite of being tough. And every respectable man I know looks down on irresponsible males.

[Asker]

Bragging about lifting heavy weights &;how fast he is on the track but refusing to "man up"? Woman look down on behavior like this?

[LazerBean]

If someone has to man up, it's because he's currently not a man. And any self-respecting person would look down on such pathetic behavior.

[Asker]

So dating would be a NONO for guys like this? Unless the girl is just as dumb as him?

[LazerBean]

Yeah, but there are plenty of dumb girls who would date him for a while. Relationships with people like that do not last though.

[Asker]

Mostly inexperienced girls who haven't dated much at all

[LazerBean]

Not necessarily, there are lots of dumb girls who will always be dumb.

[Asker]

But older woman will see through the "macho/tough guy" act much faster than you're average girl?

[LazerBean]

I'd say in general yes, but not necessarily for every woman. Like I said, some women never learn

[inhua]

behavior of modern women

[whereismyjohnny]

Of a boy.

[Asker]

Is this behavior common if the father isn't around?

& what's the definition of a man?