Guys, Pictures disappear?

[Anonymous]

So if a persons husband does weird things like disappear with no contact even blocks her number, then when he goes back to his wife he blames her for the reason he was gone.. and pictures of her she sent to him disappear from his phone, he claims he don't know where they went. Among other things like not answering his phone when she calls but with all this he claims he loves her didn't want to be without her but never says sorry.. and most the time he does spend with her minus the "vacation" time he disappears and blames her for his absence.. what would he be doing?

[Guardian45]

Guy is a gaslighter, manipulator, liar and probably has a side honey.

[Asker]

Well I totally agree.. Might it be something like he likes to dress up in women's clothes? Or once he's been gone a night he figures he's in trouble so he just makes the most of it? Or maybe an addiction of some sort? Maybe a childish b**** that thinks he can do whatever he wants? I would think another chick completely but I've heard of people that gamble do this kinda stuff also?

[Guardian45]

ALL are possible. WHAT is likely, knowing him? You would know best! But WHATEVER it is, he's up to NO GOOD!

[Asker]

You know it's weird I've never encountered somebody like this.. i didn't actually think people like this existed.. i give everyone way to much benefit of the doubt type thing.. that's even with not trusting anyone fully

[Guardian45]

Thank you for MHG!

[MementoMori777]

Nothing good

[Asker]

Well what would he be doing though? Just enjoying alone time? Or maybe think time? But this happens regularly also

[MementoMori777]

The real question is why is he hiding it from his wife, like he can't just tell her he wants alone time, it's clearly something he doesn't want her to know about which is flake behavior, usually the only thing that can take the attention of a man away from a woman so constantly like that is unfortunately another woman.

[Asker]

That's what I would think to

[MementoMori777]

I hope that's not the case and I hope the reasons are dumb