Why do guys delete you as soon as you upload these photos?

[Anonymous]

I was pregnant and now have my baby

I uploaded photos of baby and partner

My following on instagram decreased
And found out that mostly males were unfollowing me lol

[genericname85]

i unfollow such women as well. instagram is not your family foto album and "IN MY OPINION", you're a bad mom because:

A: you put your wish to get validation from the outside world above your childs right of privacy, which it can not enforce yet.
B: it shows having a child is about you, not about the child in your mind and
C: that to me is a mild form of child abuse and i don't associate with child abusers.

sorry if i sound so harsh but that's really thes everity such semingly "harmless" behavior has in my mind.

[genericname85]

i didn't intend for the smily. it was supposed to be C :

[hahahmm]

They had the fantasy that you're available. This is probably why if you think of any women who make lots of money based off of their looks, they don't usually talk about their man much. I don't follow anybody tho... just know what I see in the media.

[Anonymous]

Why would they want to keep pursuing someone thats taken? You didn’t think they stuck around in hopes of friendship did you? Well now you know their underlying intentions

[Anonymous]

You spend so much time worrying about how many men don't want to sleep with you anymore. Stop counting men who unfollowed you and just focus on your baby

[RHK36]

Why do you care or put so much stock into social media is the real question? Why are you tracking which are men unless you chatting and flirting with them? Why accept follows from strangers if you do claim some bs that you don't lead men on?

Stay single guys, these women ain't it. They care more about attention instead of acting right.

[boggboss]

Because they was only following u because they hoped it would lead to fucking u

[Asker]

Lol what?

[boggboss]

Why is that surprising

[Asker]

Why would they hope?

[boggboss]

Because thats what many guysbdo add women on insta hoping to one day jump in their dms

[BoopBoopBeep]

They only followed you for the eye candy or because they are simps, since you have a family you're "damaged goods" to them and they've moved on.

[AviatorTom]

Those guys are showing respect for you... you are a mother in a relationship.

[LiamJHayden]

They probably had delusional fantasies that you might be interested in them.

[Sanser]

W O W... I really don't know why... I don't want to think that they thought of you as a possible hook up but everything indicates that yes...

[mommymommymommy]

i can't stand kids. i don't want them, and i hate people who "show them off"

[Anonymous]

Why did this guy delete you as soon as you upload these photos?

There ^ I fixed it for you.

[In_Trance]

must be the guys that you're interacting with. why do you keep doing this?

[barn_stormer]

they lost interest in you because you have a baby and a partner

[jjj101010]

I guess they think u have become less desirable because u r taken

[Blueeyes81]

You ruined their fantasy.

[Asker]

Fantasy?

[Blueeyes81]

Guys typically only follow attractive women on Instagram. The moment you bring kids into the picture you ruin what brought them there in the first place.

[heavymetalbrotha]

Kinda serves them no purpose basically.