Why are guys so bent out of shape when females pay for their own sh*t and don’t obsess over him?

[Anonymous]

[Fireguy17]

I do not get bent out of shape.
I like independent women.
With my goofy work schedule, I need someone that can function on their own.
Possibly because all they have is some money and if a woman doesn't fall all over him because of that he hasn't got anything else to impress her with?

[VikingWarLord]

We don't get bent out of shape, it sounds like you're the one bent outta shape.

We just don't give a flying F what you do.

Men aren't wired like that. We don't care about her career or how much money she has. You women can't seem to process that men want opposite things in women, than women do in men.

[Asker]

Ah okay “us women can’t seem to” eh. You sound like you dislike women to begin with

[VikingWarLord]

oh no no dear, I dislike women who don't accept how things really are.

[Asker]

News flash; women don’t have to accept things according to a man’s perspective or a man’s expectations. It’s not our job to please a man’s point of view.

[VikingWarLord]

oh yes it is, it's still a MAN'S WORLD there tootz !

[SirJohn42]

Sorry I dont care if you but for things.
But it seems you are judging all guys here.
Not all men care for that. I like independent women.
I also love to provide for her too. But will never make a big deal about it.
Money isn't everything nor does it define a relationship.
As long as things are paid for.
Dont go in debt.

[Asker]

I’m not judging, that’s your perspective here. I’m asking a question.

[SirJohn42]

I understand its a question. But the tone seemed a bit harsh.
I just hope you get tge answer your looking for.

[Gingerbread_GB]

Certainly not all guys. Maybe you are dealing with more traditional guys, more chauvinistic guys.

[Asker]

Yeah, men are bent all out of shape about it. Complaining that women are too independent.

[Gingerbread_GB]

Maybe you should meet some guys from outside of your circle. Sometime we have to realize that people around us don't make up the whole world.

[Asker]

I don’t have a circle ⭕️

[Gingerbread_GB]

square then.

[Asker]

What guys are you dealing with?

[MementoMori777]

I'm not bent but to be fair I don't know what you mean by bent lol

[Anonymous]

Because guys like to be the ones providing and it makes a guy feel like sh1t when he's sitting there watching her reach into her purse.

[Danny_dan92]

Some guys are programmed to be 100% providers

[Anonymous]

Men are control freaks.

[savagewolf22]

No sweety i appreciate woman who pay for their own shits 😘

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you asking about one guy in particular?

[OddBeMe]

Will you pay for my shit?

[Anonymous]

Is this a serious question? LMAO!

[ChiTown33]

No clue