Why would my friend have a hard time getting over a guy especially when they were never a thing to begin with?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because she created a fake fantasy in her head where she strongly believed they were together or at least be together in the future.

I just watched a movie about this today. Not sure what the movie was called but the secretary fell in love with her boss and even though he made it clear he didn't want to be with her,. He even fired her but in her mind she was in love with him and strongly believed they were meant to be together even when she was in hospital for shooting someone she was still obsessing over her former boss

[xoxooxoxoxo]

because one sided relationships unfortunately exist and the amount of love for one person while they dont love u has made false now any memory ever made together. literal deception.

[Ms_Facesitter]

She really wanted it to be true.

[Wise4myage]

She might have had high expectations.

[Asker]

They have been talking for 4 years but he was just being nice and he was with other girls. They had a dispute because he said he wanted to date a girl 20 years younger than him

[Wise4myage]

She should have seen the writing on the wall a long time ago.

[Asker]

He would even tell her he was dating other girls

[Wise4myage]

Well then, she's nothing but a sucker for abuse.