What would guys do when he feels jealous of the girl he likes talking to other guys?

[SaRang21]

What does a guy do when he’s jealous of the girl he secretly has a crush on talking to another guy? Or when other guys approach her?

[TheThingALing]

If I liked her j should have moved quicker then. If she talking to other guys now, and I am allowing myself to get all emotional rather than just moving on to another girl, then I would in this hypothetical scenario, prove to her that I would have been the work guy to show interest in.

[Leon1]

2 options. Either he begins the process of moving on or he gives into fear becomes toxic and chases.

[Noodle_fan]

it can be anything , he may try harder to attract attention from the girl , or he may try to avoid get attached too much by talking to other girls , or he won't do anything , jus chill , etc

in the end , it depend on what kind of guy is he

[SaRang21]

Would he get angry at the girl?

[Noodle_fan]

itt is unreasonable for him to get angry with her ,
if he did , it means you should avoid him

[Motiv8edMan248]

It's still a crush. Lol he needs to voice his intentions and wants to her

[MementoMori777]

Nothing, they can either watch or separate to not have to see it, I recommend that second one

[Justaguyagain]

I think the same

[MementoMori777]

Yep I'd expect anyone that cares about their emotions to agree no lie

[Leon1]

As a guy, I would keep my distance further to not hurt myself even more than I feel.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. I'd move on. If she's talking to the other guy obviously that's who she wants to talk to so no reason to have a crush on her anymore.

[spartan55]

Why are you trying to make him jealous?

[SaRang21]

Not trying to make him jealous. It’s just that my crush acts weird whenever I talk to other guys so I just wonder

[spartan55]

How is he acting weird?

[SaRang21]

He scolded me for no reason when I was talking to another guy.
He told another guy I was taken when they approached me.

[spartan55]

He's not your boyfriend?

[SaRang21]

No he’s not. I like him secretly. I don’t know how he feels about me. He does flirt with me sometimes we aren’t that close..
I’m just wondering why he scolded me.. am kinda angry

[spartan55]

Because he's a jealous possessive asshole? If he is acting that bad and you aren't even together? Think about if you were in a relationship... I wouldn't touch that guy if I were you.

[SaRang21]

Can’t say he’s jealous and possessive cause I don’t know how he feels about me actually…
he’s not pursuing relationships because he’s going abroad to pursue his dreams

[spartan55]

Huh? What you mean you can't say he's jealous and possessive? Was his behavior not about as blatant as it gets?

[SaRang21]

Him saying I was taken may be a sign of jealousy.. but not sure about him scolding me cause it’s weird

[spartan55]

That's the controlling part of it. You can be in denial but he is domestic abuser starter kit.

[SaRang21]

Controlling? 😲
Actually I just wonder what would be the reason why he did that.

A guy asked me if the paper was to be submitted to me, I answered no, give it to XXX, then he suddenly woke from his sleep and walked up to me saying “why did you mention other’s name.. why., blah blah blah, you go do some self reflection”
I am just wondering if I did anything wrong.. I’m kinda sad and angry actually

[spartan55]

Yeah CONTROLLING. Who cares why he would do it? You are worried about the wrong thing...🙄

[SaRang21]

Controlling you mean he wants to control my behaviours?
Worried about the wrong thing? How? 😂 if he’s not jealous in that case, then there’s no way he’s controlling me lol

[spartan55]

Wth are you talking about? He was jealous and controlling... you seem to be in denial about this.

[SaRang21]

Yea I know what you mean. I’m just saying he was angry for no reason and I just wonder what’s wrong

[spartan55]

He's an ass, that's what's wrong.

[Leon1]

Spartan is projecting. There’s not enough info to consider any of that, but if he has feelings for you it’s possible for it to get sour if he thinks it’s unrequited you may be already taken, or she likes that guy not him or w/e. What happens next is he detaches and slowly begins the process of moving on forever or he gives into the fear becomes toxic and chases you. But yes there is also the option that there wasn’t enough for him to get the greenlight or he could just not like you and be an ahole.

[Leon1]

In your case you said he is moving abroad so that’s the answer. Either he likes you but can’t really get into anything or he doesn’t like you and is like Spartan said just an ahole.

[spartan55]

@Leon1
Who are you, OP's butler? Projecting what exactly? This one is pretty obvious. Not sure what you are even talking about.