How to know if I’m texting a player?

[sftblllife36]

So I have been talking to this guy on Snapchat (we are both 17), and he seems pretty nice. We send snaps, some normal and some with goofy snapchat filters. He got very mad when I told him about my abusive ex, and even offered to go with me to the cops if I ever decided to go for support. And he gets very mad at other guys who send me weird stuff on snapchat. He asked before when we were gonna hang out. He also sends me snaps of him working out and the one night we were sending videos back and forth just talking. One night I was crying, and he asked what was wrong and was trying to comfort me. However, there have been a few times where he had not snapped me back, but was snapping other people, and he also group snaps me sometimes. At this point I’m having trouble figuring out if we are in the talking stage or just friends. Is there any ways I could know if he is just playing me or if he is genuinely interested? Or any factors of his behavior that would tell what his intentions are?

[hsshannah96]

Keep in mind the second (if they are a player) they have sex with you, they will drop you. And move to the next girl.

[sftblllife36]

Yes, that’s why I am trying to figure it out before it gets too serious. Do you think it sounds like he is a player or truly is interested and a good boy? He doesn’t give off big player vibes, and I don’t think he would care so much about me and get so upset over my abusive ex if he was trying to play me. Do you agree?

[hsshannah96]

You’re just friends. And if you’re in the talking stage he’s a player he’s dating probably 50 other girls

[linka_pat307]

Sorry but i don't see any signs of him loving or wanting you

[sftblllife36]

What makes you say this? I’m confused on why he would say things like that he is always there, he got very mad about my abusive ex, and he asked me when we were going to hang out.

[linka_pat307]

I don't know how to explain this.. According to your explanation I don't see him showing love...

[sftblllife36]

I’m very confused by what you mean lol. i’ve only been texting him for like a week

[Anonymous]

i have noticed players are emotional manipulators. they try to make you feel guilty for things you never did. and more attention you give them more they ignore you. so be careful. also if he gets jealous of other guys around you it is not sign of his love.

[sftblllife36]

He was not getting jealous. He was angry about what my ex did to me (he abused me and raped me). He said if he would have known me when it happened he would have beat the sh** out of him. He doesn’t try to make things my fault. If anything he comforts me and says that it couldn’t be helped and he tried to take the blame for one thing instead of putting it on me.

[Opinion Owner]

i was telling signs of bad guys from what i have experienced.
but yours sounds nice guy. so you should not worry too much. don't overthink. once you will meet him you will know him better. i wish you get love of your life

[sftblllife36]

Do you think it sounds like he is interested or just wants to be friends?

[Opinion Owner]

he is protective and caring. also he sends you his working out videos. so i am pretty sure he is interested. ik guys do this for their crushes especially

[sftblllife36]

ok thank you!! i appreciate it

[hsshannah96]

Him being vain and into his muscles does not always mean he’s into you

[BarryLiverstone]

He asked you out, so did you go on a date?

[sftblllife36]

Not yet. He just asked me that like 2 days ago. I don’t know if he wanted to hang out as friends or if he saw it as a date or not

[BarryLiverstone]

As a date

[sftblllife36]

Do you think he is interested then or playing me?