He'll talk about the same topics/bring up same stories since he'll forget which girl he spoke to about that.
He'll also "know" random details about you which are actually wrong (hard to keep track of which girl said this and that).
He'll most likely be busy (not including work) most days and finding a day to meet can be tricky sometimes.
He doesn't want to go out on dates too much since he's dating multiple girls and it can get very expensive.
He won't like taking picture with you or show you pics on his phone.
He tries to avoid the subject about how many other girls he's dating.
His place is very clean every time you visit (need to be sure there are no traces of other girls so you need to clean the apartment to be sure).
Won't randomly take a booty call because most likely he's with another girl or just was and is too tired.
He doesn't talk about introducing you to his friends and/or family.
He doesn't want a relationship.
Hmm those are the ones I can think of from the too of my head.
If the conversation constantly turns to flirting sexual inuebdo or touching, he's probably a player. If those actions are only intermittant, and he asks you about your day, your life your family etc there's a greater likelihood he's genuinely interested. If he brings up a topic you spoke of the last time you were together (not sex) it means he's listening and not just undressing you with his eyes while you speak.
ask him about his views on relationships. how has his previous relationships been? (creep in a bit about his former ex's) if he says they're crazy - ask yourself why would he be with a crazy girl? did he turn them crazy while with them? if so stay away from him lmao. if he feels uncomfortable to openly talk about that then he knows he did something wrong.
just in general social media peeping helps occasionally to see their interaction. obviously this only a small portion - you don't or can't see who's snapchatting or messaging them. but it's a starting point to see if he wants an exclusive relationship or have something with more than one girl uncommitted
another give away is what you two talk about, when and how frequently - does he play mind games? does he only call/message at night as a booty call? or when he needs something? does he value what you have to say or does he just ramble on about your physical looks? some guys can be very deciving with this so you just gotta me more smart and filter them out
Base from experience:
1. You're not the only person he gives attention to. Don't believe him that she's just a friend. Been there, honey. Been there.
2. He's sweeter than what a usual guy would be because girl, the wolf will do everything and even wear a sheep's clothing to get in your pants.
3. A fuck boy is a fuck boy and it's a damn twisted lifestyle they just can't escape so easily because apparently these beasts and frogs don't believe that a princess can turn them back into a prince.
4. Listen to your girlfriends or even better, your mom and sisters. Preferably, those with many experience because they have 'fuck boy radars' and when they tell you that he is, you better listen to them.
I darn wish someone told me these things so I didn't have to be a victim.
Love yourself, girl! Choose what's best for you and your heart!
If a guy is a player, he knows you like him emotionally and he keeps you coming back to him just sexually. Some other signs are that he won't take you on a real date, only texts at night, and honestly doesn't reciprocate. Trust your gut. Don't let crazy lust or infatuation cloud your judgment. Because afterward, though you might learn from the experience, you will feel devalued. And you deserve better. Trust me.
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Welcome to the club of being played. Is he super confident and cocky? Player. Does he not ask you personal details to get to know you? Player. I don't know... if you feel he might be a player he probably is. Trust your gut.
Does he want to spend time with you and actually listen to what you have to say?
I notice players tend to be really touchy, its kinda a dead give away. If he touches you and tries to act cool / sly / funny about it there's a good chance he's a player using mind games on you.
Honestly if he's good at it u will never know. But most are sloppy so you'll find out sooner or later.
Mixed signals. Someone whos serious about you is consistent and doesn't confuse you or play any mind games he is straight foward and keeps it real
Ask him if he'll be exclusive with you, since he likes you so much.
Don't hurry to trust him. Try to not get too attached to him, because it won't end well, trust me. You have to get to know him really well also you have to make him do choices and see what he chooses. That way you will understand his way of thinking.
if he doesn't care wht u feel any only after u for his needs
He uses you and does it when convenient for him
"you're the only girl I'm talking to"
Make him wait before he gets back in your pants. Take him through the whole dating thing again first
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