What does he really want?

[Skarletjonancy]

Ok so this guy I'm friends with. We never dated, but at one point he said he used have feelings for me but our age difference was an issue so he doesn't want to date me. But he said he wants to sleep with me but he said he's afraid I'll use him for sex. That makes no sense what is going on in his head?

[kylee2437]

He’s being manipulative. He wants to have sex with you but doesn’t want to make it seem like he’s using you for it is what he meant to say

[Skarletjonancy]

How is he being manipulative

[Jacksoscar]

Over the years I have had a few plutonic cuddle buddy's. So just cuddling, and sleeping nothing sexual. Sex was never the intention just physical touch and conversation. So it's not always about sex. Maybe he just wants non-sexual physical contact.

[Skarletjonancy]

But he told me clearly he wants sex and told me he wants to wear protection

[Anonymous]

He's full of crap and wants to use you for sex, so don't fall for his BS.

[Skarletjonancy]

If all he wants is sex then how can he be afraid I'll use him for sex? 🤨

[Opinion Owner]

Good question.

[spartan55]

He sounds like an idiot. Use him for sex...🙄

[Cheerfull009]

He doesn't want relationship but to fuck you only

[Skarletjonancy]

Then how can he be afraid I'll use him for sex if all he wants is sex? I'm lost

[Cheerfull009]

He is coward person, afraid may be cannot satisfy you