Any other autistics here?

[hsshannah96]

Asking cause nobody else seems to freeze up when any guy cuddles with you and then you can’t talk etc. Do any other autistics experience this? I’m very concerned there’s something wrong cause I do and just hoping there’s one other person who can give me insight on this

[leahzrc]

My ex and my manager have autism both are very different people.

[hsshannah96]

Nobody thus far has understood my situation and I felt autistics would grasp it better without being too confused

[leahzrc]

You say you don't like cuddles because you think they will want sex? do you not like sex?

[hsshannah96]

Not within 2 weeks of knowing someone! What are you people up to? Gee

[hsshannah96]

Hate sex cause after sex guys become worse a holes than before we had it! Before we have it they pressure me and badger me into it and afterward they never want to do anything but stay home with me and never leave the house

[leahzrc]

I didn't know you knew him for only 2 weeks

[leahzrc]

Tell them your values and that you aren't that easy

[hsshannah96]

Did. Done w him. boo my life stinks so badly

[shortster]

I am, but I don't experience this. I freeze up on other things. When you get to certain level of nervousness you tend to freeze up.

[hsshannah96]

It’s like my body is like whoa I like this but this was a surprise or something so I like can’t move or do anything for some reason

[shortster]

Sounds like you are in overload

[hsshannah96]

This could be it. When I don’t have any notice I kinda get in overload

[shortster]

I think so

[pethouse]

I mean when I was a kid my mom told me I had autism

[Emanon25]

Why do you freeze?

[hsshannah96]

Cause I think they’re trying to have sex

[hsshannah96]

But I’ve always been like this

[Emanon25]

I understand