It’s a long distance. He every day texts “morning” and asks my day and how am I but he doesn’t ask anything else, I mean doesn’t make a convo. We’ve been talking for almost 3 months. And he calls me gorgeous. Often compliments me. If he is not interested in me why does he write every day but doesn’t make enough effort?
He only writes morning texts and how are you then what are you doing every day but nothing more? Guys, why does a guy behave such way?
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He may have a social disability or something like Asperger's or autism, especially if he's been doing this every day for almost 3 months. There are a lot of guys who message women like you're describing, because they have some kind of social impairment and I'm going to bet that he doesn't interact with females in real life very often, if ever. He might want to say more but has no idea how to really form a conversation.
But the caveat here is that you've let this go on all this time. Why?
Why is it up to him to create a conversation every day? He isn't making enough effort? What effort are you making? Sounds like you don't think you need to do anything except wait for his text.
I always try to make a convo but he doesn’t keep it. He answers, but doesn’t ask anything. So it sounds weird
Guys hate texting. The sooner you realize this the better.
Have you called him? Because men hate texting. Or are you only wanting HIM to put in effort while you do nothing?
Yeah called ( but since he is a native, kinda hard to me to understand him, he said nothing to worry and I will learn step by step). And I always try to make a convo and he replies with long texts but he doesn’t ask about my interests. Like he said he was reading a book, then I asked to tell about it but he doesn’t ask what’s my fav book. So that’s the question. But he mentioned that he is busy, and we have time differences. However I guess he could make me time (10-20 mins) right?
Everybody is a native of somewhere. What does "he is a native" mean? I'm a native American but the native Canadians can still understand me? Do you mean to say you do not both speak the same mother tongue? If so, you're seriously asking why someone who is so bad at whatever language you speak that you can't understand him, why he doesn't engage in the already arduous task of texting out an actual conversation?
Can't make this stuff up folks.