How should I respond?

[Anonymous]

A guy I used to be in love with who had seemed interested in me hinted at being a male sex worker for a living. I’m surprised. He was very handsome and charming so he’s probably an escort. What should I say? We’ve been out of contact for three years because he got uncomfortable with my feelings for him and he comes out with this.. and indirectly. Why did he tell me, more to the point?

Updates

11 mo

It’s a real question. I’m posting anonymously to guard privacy.

[Anonymous]

Random conversation?

[Asker]

Yes indeed. Why tell me this now though? The whole truth?

[Opinion Owner]

I wonder if he still has feelings for you.

[Asker]

I don’t know. Is that your opinion?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it is.

[Asker]

Oh. So he’s trying to tell me by saying he loves his crazy lifestyle that this is his reason for staying single (his job); and feels he can’t do that and have a romantic relationship, but he wants me to know he likes me?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, but he sounds weird.

[Asker]

Is it possible that he’s trying to offer his services for money?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, Id say so.

[Asker]

Should I say I’m not interested, or just ignore him?

[Opinion Owner]

I say ignore him.

[Asker]

Okay, thanks 😊

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.