How do I respond to this?

[Anonymous]

This text came from a guy I had talked to for a little while. He was actually a really nice person and I did think highly of him. We had a lot in common and talked on the phone for hours. He took me on one date and then I ended things because I ended up doing it with another guy who I had been friends with for years. Also, this was the first time I had sex in 5 years so I broke my celibacy. I didn’t expect for that to happen but my first thought was that I shouldn’t lead this man on. So I told him I could be friends with him but that it was getting serious with somebody else. In all honesty I don't know what is going on with me and the other guy but I do know that he and I are progressing towards a relationship but none of us actually wanted to jump into one just because we had sex. Yet, I like him a lot and he has been my friend for years so I believe that it could work out. I genuinely didn’t mean any harm towards this guy I just hadn’t known him long enough or got serious enough to continue to try to talk because I thought it might just be a waste of time. I hoped I hadn’t hurt his feelings and wondered if he was okay. He seemed okay and like he understood. We still had friendly conversations but I don’t reach out to him anymore and I keep things as strict friends. The guy I deal with knows the situation and told me he stopped talking to other girls as well and that if anybody asked he told them he had a girlfriend, he also had told his family about me and met my family. I don’t mind still being friends. I just think with the way he worded the question in the text gave me an impression that he might still be interested. And I don't know what to say that I haven’t already told him that won’t hurt his feelings because it isn’t about him at all. I just genuinely have feelings for my friend and want to see where it goes without jeopardizing anything. So I wouldn’t personally mind hanging out if I didn’t think this man had other intentions

[Guy13]

I would say either I am busy or I am too busy for you. Someone there is in a committed relationship. There seems like it is a no go text.

[Anonymous]

Be honest with the other guy and tell him you’re seeing someone else. He is not hitting you up to have a casual hang out, otherwise he wouldn’t have asked if you were in a serious relationship. You being in one at all wouldn’t matter if it were just friendship. So let him go, you don’t need to make it complicated and should respect the guy you are seeing and trying to create something with.

[Mansearching]

Tell him relationship relationship. And your s/o wouldn't like it. Might have to end that part as friends or end the friendship all together.