When women say they seek emotional intelligence in a guy , what do they actually mean by it 🤔 ?

[Anonymous]

[hsshannah96]

A guy who cares about other people’s feelings BESIDES HIS OWN, a guy who is intuitive and reads other people’s facial expressions and is able to respond appropriately. a guy who is able to work through arguments without yelling and swearing. A guy who validates a girl’s feelings and expresses his respectfully. A guy who understands why women might not want to screw ya 2 weeks into knowing each other

[Asker]

Great explanation !

[Anonymous]

It means we want you to know why we are upset without telling you😭

[spartan55]

This is the one of the most frustrating illogical parts of dealing with a woman. Why tf does it mean SO much more if we just magically know why you are upset? WE DON'T KNOW. But if you tell us then those of us who love you will do everything they possibly can to correct it. See how we work?

[Asker]

Oh.. You know, I can actually do that... I can sense when someone is upset and I tell them " hey , are you okay? ... is it about * something * ? do you want * something * ? " ... and I'm usually right.. maybe because when I like someone I actually care about them and notice the little things about them and their quirks... so , it's that easy , huh? no wonder women and kids love me.. it's barely a natural reflex for me though...

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah that makes sense asker!

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 i know.. its from trauma... I grew up in abusive home so when I was upset I was laughed at or shamed for it. So I never wanna say if Im upset now.

Or if I am upset and I dont wanna say it could be because its stupid. Like overthinking about something so dumb its embarrassing to say. And as a woman I know you men will try to solve it like a problem in a logical way but sometimes I just want someone to listen to rant too.. so thats why.

[spartan55]

@asker
Good for you dude. Go take up interior design then.

[spartan55]

@OpinionOwner
That actually makes some sense. Thanks for pulling back the curtain.

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 :)👍🏻

[Asker]

@spartan55 you sound like an ugly incel... You're a keyboard warrior... I get approached by strangers and can't even keep female friends... lol incels are like manchilds or some edgy 14 yo... the difference between you and me... I do nothing and women want me , and you have to work or pay for it lol

[spartan55]

@asker
Not even close, so your assessment skills aren't great as you claim. I've never had issues attracting women, and I don't want them as friends. Never paid for one either, you are really reaching. But keep making shit up, that's what people do who got nothing. You are using this post to brag about how in touch with women you are. One thing I've learned is no one should ever have to point out how great they are. Whether it be looks, money, whatever. To do so is just bragging and no one likes that shit. It's weak. I know where I'm living and people who know me know that. I'm good with that.

[Opinion Owner]

@asker thankyou for MHO!😊

[spartan55]

They want a dude in touch with his gay side, then they don't.

[Asker]

Lmao 😂

[Anonymous]

The fact you are asking this shows you don't have it.

[Asker]

Okay that's a fail lol... I'm actually asking because people tell me I have it , kids love me , female friends keep falling for me... I wanna know what do girls mean by it exactly because I don't feel I'm going out of my way or doing something extra...

[In_Trance]

They want a guy that can read their mind