Am I an effeminate male if?

[Tomisworthless]

Am I an effeminate and unattractive looking male if I only attract plus size women and masculine tall women on Tinder and the cute small feminine women don’t match with me?

[hahahmm]

No but stop wasting your time with online stuff.

[Tomisworthless]

Hey it’s hard to meet women for me in real life, last chick I met rejected me after a couple of ‘dates’

[hahahmm]

That means any of:
a.) You are picking the wrong women.
b.) You are not confident enough to attract women (see my MyTake on leadership).
c.) They sense you are looking for something different than what they are. Maybe on a subconscious level you're just rejecting these women and not even knowing it. See point a.

You are thirsty for women right now. That's not a good place to be in.

[leahzrc]

good question, maybe it is just easier to attract them?

[Tomisworthless]

I’m trying to gauge my pull capability, to see what women I’m attractive to. I guess I’m just not that attractive to women, or at least women I’d like to be intimate with