What's with the guys and teasing?

[Anonymous]

I have a guy friend I'm very close with. He teases me all the time when we're alone or talking on the phone. However never does it when we're out with other friends. More so, he tries not to talk to me at all but rather tends to lock eyes with me. If he talks to me or says something teasing he does it so no one hears it. I think he likes me as more than a friend but he does not want to admit it.

[mommymommymommy]

Then tell him how you feel. Stop playing games. You're not getting any younger

A girl I've liked for 10 years, (i'm now 34), i told her, recently and she said it back, and im like "uh, really, why didn't you say anything?" and she's like "im sure i have". Well, i certainly don't remember it because i had no clue

So, if you tell him, make sure you mean it. Men, tend to believe that if a girl says it, she's just playing around

[Asker]

Do you guys really think we're playing around if we tell you we like you? But I mean it when I say it. Now that you say this his behavior makes sense.

[mommymommymommy]

Yeah, cause we think "oh, she's just "friendzoning" us", whatever the fuck the "friendzone" is, LMAO

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Wheres @In_Trance to tell you you're too old for this shit?

[EaterPeter]

We are taught with many wrong things. We don't know next steps either that how to move swiftly from first base to second to third base. Second last part is double entendre example.

[Jhunitor]

Are you sure he is not teasing you only when alone to not embarass you in front of other.

[Asker]

Maybe.

[KrakenAttackin]

At 45+ you still ask this stuff? Did you stop maturing in high school?

[Reorx]

You're right in my opinion, he likes you but is insecure. Guys have feelings too.

[nawtee_me]

sounds like it to me...

[spartan55]

Are you really 45?