Guys teasing girls...

[Anonymous]

So guys is it a good or bad thing when you tease girls and have "inside jokes" with them? Is this a way of flirting for you guys?

[thelittlethings]

I am really close with a guy I work with. My nickname to him is dork and he is always teasing me and messing around. I always took our relationship as only friends. He got a new girlfriend and he was telling me how he teases her and calls her names, and I asked him why. He said he only does it to girls he likes. I asked him why he did it to me and he said because he liked me a lot and wanted something with me. I lost my chance because he has a girl now, which is fine with me. But if you wouldn't be happy about losing your chance with him you better go for it!

[allie17]

Wat if it makes you cry and get scared? my boyfrend likes 2 joke around wit me but I cry and get scared from em. I can't tell wen he's joking because he sounds so serious. he'd joke that he's movin 10 hrs away from me, or that he's gona cheat on me wen he goes on vacation 4 a few days, wich, by the way he's not going because I'm not allowed 2 go. I tell him 2 plz not tell these jokes, but he doesnt

[thelittlethings]

Ok your man need to know where to draw the line!! That is rude!! The guy I work with would never say anything hurtful. And my boyfriend teases me more than anybody ever would but he would NEVER say something like that. Joking about cheating is not funny, even if he is kidding that's not something to kid about. And you def shouldn't be scared of him. You need to talk to him and draw the line or tell him it's over. Don't ever let anyone hurt you like that. Besides it will start to make you

[thelittlethings]

Paranoid and he is going to be all pist off when you are wondering if he is cheating and when it comes down to it, it's his fault. He won't see it that way though. It's going to cause problems and it needs to stop.

[djstizl]

I'd say its a good thing. I can't speak for all guys, but I tease everyone I like. Its just in good fun. I am sarcastic in my nature. If you don't like it, don't be afraid to be politely assertive and tell him to stop. If you like this guy, I'd say play along because he probably does like you.