Why is he asking about my husband?

[Anonymous]

A guy who used to be like me years ago added me on Snapchat. We used to be really good friends. We’ve never dated but he’s told people he used to like me. He was stalking my stories for a while then messaged me asking me “how long have you been married” then proceeded to ask about my husband. He’s not not read my last message for 3 days but viewing my stories. What’s up with him? Is this normal? We are both married with children.

[ohsheeT]

It kinda sounds as he is now un happy with his marriage. So he's asking about your husband to she if you are unhappy with him

[California_Poppy]

He's interested. Doesn't matter that you are both married and long time friends.
in my opinion you should stop communicating with him out of respect for your husband.

[KrakenAttackin]

He wants to go balls deep and you want him to or you wouldn't be chatting with him.

[Asker]

We used to be mate so no and it’s been 8 years.

[Jazzy54]

Why did you accept his request?

[Asker]

Because we were really good friends…

[Jazzy54]

He still might be interested in you. Be careful with how you communicate with him.

[Asker]

But we are both married? Why would he still be interested after 8 years …

[Jazzy54]

Oh, you’d be surprised. Reconnecting with an old crush could be a dream come true for him. His feelings for you probably never went away. Unfortunately, just because someone is married doesn’t mean he won’t develop feelings for someone else. It happens all the time. Why do you think so many people cheat and get divorced? So again, just be careful in how you communicate with him.

[es20490446e]

How does it make you feel him asking?

[Asker]

About my husband? I don’t know why he’s interested in my husband. Do you think he wants him?

[es20490446e]

So do you feel curious to know?

[Asker]

Know what?

[es20490446e]

What his motivation is.

[Asker]

Yes that’s why I asked…

[es20490446e]

Do you fear he is trying to flirt with you, instead of just having a casual conversation?

Does that feel weird to you?

[Asker]

Yes…but is it flirting? He’s being quite serious overall. Just asking about my husband.

[es20490446e]

It could be either way. But actually it doesn't matter too much, because all depends on what you want.

[Wise4myage]

Does he want to hook up?

[Asker]

No…just questions about my husband and now ignored me last message

[Wise4myage]

Maybe you should do the same?

[Asker]

I have. I just don’t what the point of it was

[Danny_dan92]

Ask him